Why is that when you need them the least, all of the Ex's come out of the woodworking of your existence?
My stalker ex: I woke up a few weeks ago to 60 text messages and 30 voicemails. All of these were acquired within a SEVEN hour period. Yes, 7 hours!
He states: He loves me, he knows that I'm single now, he desperately fucked up by being a drug user and psycho. He's changed, he's better now, He can't live without me. Blah fucking blah blah blah
My ex fiancee: Has a new girlfriend that is 13 years older than me. He met her on a sleezy S and M website. YAY FOR HIM! I could care less. Except that he's texting and messaging my friends telling them all of this so they of course, it gets back to me! I dumped him, now he's tying to rub it in my face that he's replaced me with some 43 year chick.
My ex from 03,04,05: He's now married with 2 kids and texting me like mad because he misses me. He says he made a mistake (not his kids) but getting married and not being with me.
Seriously, WHAT IS UP WITH THE EX's and them realizing that I was the one that got away.
My new birthday kitten is so much sillier than any other kitten I've owned. I expected the rambunctiousness of this little one, but I never expected it to be exactly like this.
I still havn't named her so forgive me......
Kitten likes to terrorize the many papers spread on my work desk. She lifts them up to play hide and seek with me. It's quite entertaining.
Kitten thinks that her tail is some sort of wind up toy.
She plays with it, winding it in circles and bam, she's gone and running around the house like a damn race-car out of control.
Kitten thinks that the shower/bathtub is some sort of resort where she can play and tear apart my curtain.
Kitten thinks that anything I put into my mouth should be shared for hers as well. She tried to eat a cigartette.
Kitten thinks that the fish in the tank are there for her to stalk and terrorize. I think the poor buggers are going to have little fishy heart attacks
Kitten thinks that my cell phone should be use to sharpen her teeth
Kitten thinks my bed is an over-sized cat scratching toy
And Finally
Kitten thinks that my older cat Darby, is her own personal magnetic play toy. Darby poops, Kitten poops, Darby eats, kitten eats, Darby stares at the lizard, kitten stares at the lizard and if Darby wants attention from momma kitten must obtain attention from momma too.
if you had a room-mate that didn't pay for 2 months and ate all of your food, did not help clean the house and smoked IN the house when asked not too, would your reaction to be kick them out and if yes, how do you suggest this be done.
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Explain to them that 1- they are not paying their rent and that is a must in order to live there, 2- that they are not contributing to what they are consuming, so therefore should not be eating what they have not paid for, and 3rd- they blatantly disrespected you when they went ahead and smoked in the house when they were asked not to, I believe all you would have to do is explain what they have done and if they do not wise up, they should move out and find another place to "squat".
curb kick em... err I mean kick em to the curb.. Suggestion.. Straight forward you need to find some one else to mooche off... errmm you need to find some where else to live...
I'd have to agree, leave all their shit outside. Not helping out with payments and disrespecting other's requests not to smoke is very unacceptable. You're not there to cater them.
if they have signed any lease agreement with you, you have to give them a written notice...
i had to give a past roomie a letter, stating my intentions on not living with her anymore, and why.
it's just a way to CYA, and if you state what they have done in the letter, then you have a paper trail and they cannot argue.
of course, then you have to be careful when they leave they don't take some of your stuff with them, like mine did...lol
hmm. That's not a roommate, that's a giant cockroach. Surely, they won't pretend to be surprised when you tell them to get out.
I let him move in with the agreement that he pay half of the rent and half of the utilities. I think he thinks that I can handle all of this because I have a decent job. But I needed a roomie and he knew that. My school loans are coming up and I just can't afford everything. Why do I get myself in such predicaments
Should I go or Should I stay in the US
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Go. Too many people live in the same country thier entire lives. Travel and adventure is a necessity!!! :)
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BLOODLIFE
19:15 Jul 14 2009
What a great confidence booster :-P