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"I must not fear.

Fear is the mind-killer.

Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.

I will face my fear.

I will permit it to pass over me and through me.

And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path.

Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.

Only I will remain."

-Dune

So, In the process of securing my mortgage I need to prove that my darling ex-husband was legally giving possesion of the mini van and therefore the legal responsibility for it. (after the divorce it was repo'd) So i send off to Va for the divorce decree..i pay the money and i bide my time.. then yesterday it arrives.



It says I am divorced. NOTHING else was discussed. Just that in 2004 the divorce was final. no custody, no visitation...nothing



I then proced to flip the fuck out.. this technially means that i am responsible for the 30k debt...



Then i remember.. we hammered all that stuff out early on.. and when we went to court for the divorce, it was just for a divorce.. quickly i call and have them send me that paperwork...



WHEW.. i was beyond stressed out lol





As I read those divorce proceedings, I realized I sure as hell dont divorce well. I didnt go after his retirement, 401k or anything. I didnt fight for child support (not that I would get it from him anyways). Didnt try to get him to cover the kids on his military benefits. I remember feeling at the time that my only focus was keeping the kids safe, which meant away from him.



If i ever divorce and there are no children involved, I plan on making a killing.. alimony, palimony, claims to retirements...



Maybe ill go back to school and become a lawyer.. its what i wanted to do as a little girl. course i wanted to be a prosecutor.. but i certainly have experience in family law.. and i could market myself as the avengening angel for womens and childrens rights. LOL



unfortunately, i know that hearing all of the distgusting detail of what ppl do to their kids and in front of them would make me ill... even as a nurse, being in peoples homes..watching them interact as a loved one is dying.. seeing all the dysfunction make me ill. i just wonder why most people procreate.



I think there is a special place in hell for people who use children as weapons or pawns to obtain their selfish goals.



One of my biggest fears is that if something were to happen to me that me kids would be seperated. Yes the baby is technically only their half sibling.. it matters not to small children, that is only a distinction we adults make/...half brother, full sister.... The thought of children loosing their mother and then being split apart from their siblings by different fathers makes me want to vomit. But, the courts do it.. how they can possibly think splitting up siblings is in the best interest of the child i have no clue...



I should put in my will that if anyone splits them up i'll come back and haunt them lol

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CrystalJolynn
23:52 Jul 03 2008

We know first hand how f**ked up our courts are...I wish it was all about the kids...But nine times out of ten it's all about the money....Makes me sick still....



Take Care Sexy Lady....Love Ya!!



Crystal

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Sevenn
03:08 Jul 04 2008

There are a number of law schools now that offer part-time programs for people that work. ;)

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atyourwindow
11:12 Jul 04 2008

i could see you as a lawyer.

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