ok may be you guys can help me...
im seeing this guy ,he had no where to live so i let him move in with me ,30 days after he moved in i asked him when he was going to get a job ? he got pissed off and left.he stayed gone 2 days then cam back,4 days later all he has done is sleep for 4 days i asked him to go to the store for me he got pissed off and hit me in my face and left again for 4 days,then on the 4th day he came back and said he wanted to work things out ,i said ok we can try ,now we are going on 5 months and all he does is sleep and eat,,he dont pick up any thing at all and when i ask him to do some thing he gets pissed and leves for a few days,,in the last 4 weeks hes left 6 times,,he still dont have a job and sleeps all day my frinds keep telling me hes just useing me for a place to stay ,,i dont want to see it but i feel he is ,,what do you guys think?
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LadyRayneofDarklight
23:04 Mar 07 2011
I think you need to kick his bum ass OUT. =.=
I'm sorry to say it and I know it's tough but I don't really see another option. And him hitting you in the face, no matter HOW pissed he was, is a big waving red flag. He should have bee kicked out right then.
In my opinion, you should kick him out. And if you have any trouble GETTING him out, call the cops.
LadyWolfwing
23:53 Mar 07 2011
OMG! Yes kick his ass out!
He obviously has somewhere to go when he leaves for days at a time...he can certainly stay there.
And yes after he hit you...He should of been out on his ass. Yes he is absolutely using you for a place to live. He doesn't contribute to anything in the house except waisted space.
He is a bum and if he hits on woman who takes care of him, then he is a waist of sperm and deserves to be out of society its self and in jail.
GET HIM OUT before it gets alot worst than a hit in the face.
Please message me if you need someone to talk to. I see this situation far to often and it doesn't get any better.
LadyWolfwing
23:54 Mar 07 2011
Oh and just an after though...It sounds like he is on drugs hun. The signs are there from what you describe.
Oceanne
01:31 Mar 08 2011
As I read this entry,Im thinking what the hell are you waiting for?!?!
KICK HIS LAZY ,abusive @$$ to the curb.
He IS using you.
darksurfer1969
05:38 Mar 24 2011
A guy should never hit a girl regardless of how badly she pisses him off.I've never hit a girl In my entire life and believed me.I've been through hell with some of my exes Including 1 that abused me too by hitting In the head with a cast iron skillet.I didn't hit her,but my black belt friend that was a girl when she seem my face,she took care of It for me If you know what I mean.
Kicked him out If you haven't already,because once a guy has hit a girl,he will do so again.And If he's not helping you out,then that's a very bad thing too.
Hoonaaghaahnii69
03:44 Apr 01 2011
Greetings to you my dear. My what a sticky web we weave sometimes. We shouldn't kill love by physical abuse to each other. Nonetheless a man striking a woman. Very unhealthy and inmature. You can't teach an old stray dog new tricks, hun. Either take his broke ass down to the pound or put the mother fucker out of his misery so he cannot hurt another....That's just me. Hope to hear from you. Stay safe. Oh, and one more thing, get a rabies shot asap.....lol
smokey1234
05:22 Apr 18 2011
You dont need to be hit anywhere, Kick his ass out.
SatansBitch
22:51 Apr 25 2011
thank you ever one..i have kicked him out ,and my life is going alot better....