Folks for me .................. In my heart i feel that the relationship of the frndship
is based purely on the mutual trust , faith and in some ways of love ( platonic love) . its just that
the connection must be the key point or the base of the frndshp ..........
real frndshp includes a mutual desire for companionship and perhaps a common bond of some kind. Beyond that, genuine friendship involves a shared sense of caring and concern, a desire to see one another grow and develop, and a hope for each other to succeed in all aspects of life. True friendship involves action: doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return; sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or negative criticism.
True friendship involves relationship. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, "Oh, he's a good friend of mine," yet they never take time to spend time with that "good friend." Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other's growth.
Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.
True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.
Real and true friendship involves freedom of choice, accountability, truth, and forgiveness............
Real friendship looks at the heart, not just the "packaging." Genuine friendship loves for love's sake, not just for what it can get in return. True friendship is both challenging and exciting. It risks, it overlooks faults, and it loves unconditionally, but it also involves being truthful, even though it may hurt. Genuine friendship, also called "agape" love, comes from the Lord.(sorry , not you :), i meant god , ).
Relationships in real life involve different levels of friendships, and that's okay. But humans are designed by God for lasting relationships. Often our isolationist society offers only vague, empty relationships, which is mostly now in the concept of deceptional selfish value...............( i hate to see these kind of frndships ).
Friendship is a feeling of comfort and emotional safety with a person. It is when you do not have to weigh your thoughts and measure words, before keeping it forth before your friend. It is when someone knows you better than yourself and assures to be your side in every emotional crisis. It is when you can sleep fighting and get another morning with a better understanding. Friendship is much beyond roaming together and sharing good moments, it is when someone comes to rescue you from the worst phase of life. Friendship is eternal.................
i have no idea why people become bad and do bad things in the name relationships .... & yet live happily without feeling guilty...........
'''''''*A single candle can illuminate an entire room. A true friend lights up an entire lifetime. Thanks for the bright lights of ur friendship.....'''''''*
For me, frndship is lyk a blood that flows in my veins, air that i breathe , heart that beats every micro mini seconds , above all its like life that i can't live without , like a music thats soothes my entire soul............. ( did i write too much . did i ? ) :)
But i do not have friends that i can trust yet, but i wish 4 such frnd........ (i guess i have rules made 4 them , thats why they don't wish to be my frnds ) :) but thats 5n with me , am still happily going on with my life with a Smile..................
with love , faith & smile ,
* Rashmi. :) *
Human beings are special in another way. Namely, it is by our choices that we bring intangible qualities such as morality, purpose, meaning and value into the world - we are the very reason that such things exist at all. Without us, there would still be seasons, the planets would still orbit the sun, and other living beings would be born, grow and die, but there would be no one to take notice of these facts, no one to assign value to them. Our existence adds an entirely new dimension to reality which it would not possess without us, and this is something which is absolutely unique to humans among all things we know of. In this subjective sense, then, in addition to our objective uniqueness, human beings are undeniably special. Whether a deity exists or not does not change this in the slightest............................
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love , faith, respect , & smile ,
Rashmi
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