You know there are many different views on what Christmas is supposed to be, ranging from goodwill, alleged family time, certain commercialism and presents....
But the real meaning of christmas is to get absolutely blotto with booze! I mean completely legless, slaughtered, wasted, hammered, sloshed and so on.
You can only see the spirit of this festive season by drinking to the point of hallucinating. It also helps to drown out those damn carol singers. Little bastards.
Unfortunately I couldn't quite reach such heights this year, I mean I had a bottle of sherry, some wine mixed in as well two crates of lager, I had some irish cream to top it off with before having some whiskey and cider but it didn't get me there.
Not happy at all, I didn't get blotto at all, I wanted that one day to be me becoming a drunk mess....and all I achieved was a buzz and a good night sleep.
Well I will try again for new years.
Of course....I need to actually get some more booze first since I pretty much cleaned myself out. Drinking is like drugs, in that you need far more of it than before just to get the same level of buzz.
I would wish you all a merry christmas and a happy new year but that just doesn't seem right coming from me, so what I will do instead is wish you all a happy drunk festive season and an even drunker new year. Enjoy those hangovers and accidentally sleeping with strangers!
You know there is a time for fighting and a time for quitting.
Sometimes it takes far more power of will and courage to just walk away.
It is so easy to hold on to something even when that something is doing nothing but weighing your soul down and crushing you with negativity.
These problems will also trap you in a vicious cycle... which will never seem to end. It could be years and years before you realize the futility and pointlessness of it all. Which only makes it worse since you realize the wasted time that could have been used for something far more positive.
Fighting is not the only way to achieve victory... In fact, fighting can be nothing but constant defeat.
Struggles, habits, grudges, drama and social networks etc these are things that can keep you trapped. You are then locked in a conflict or a pattern with no way forward and no way back, you may also become dependent on it as well. Unless one concedes and accepts that the situation is toxic but that doesn't happen often due to pride or denial.
Why continue the pattern? releasing yourself from these trappings would free you and you will achieve a better state of mind.
My own burden was that of hatred and the inability to tolerate the existence of people, I was so consumed with it that I even sought to rectify it with a near insurmountable and a very time consuming plan (years regrettably). However after an ephiphiny or two, I found that simply letting go (or at least coming to the conclusion that its not really my problem or responsibility to solve) was the best COA. A crushing weight was lifted and I decided to embrace a new way of thinking, Dudeism. A lifestyle or religion based on an older one called Taoism. I actually recommend it to you all. Try being chill instead of an un-dude.
Dudeism is all about being chill, relaxed and not stressing out about stuff that you cannot do anything about.
This is pretty much an over simplifiction of it...but then it is a pretty simple religion. Its just about trying to take it all easy as best as one can.
I am actually considering getting myself ordained though there may be problems giving them my name, may have to use one of me old monikers. Sadly I am used to doing that. It will be actually quite amusing to perform weddings and funerals as a dudeist.
Someone once said not to worry about what you can't control.
Golden words to live by. I mean why stress the hell out over something you really can't do anything about.
It has been awhile since I have been on here so I have no idea if there is still any drama going on, but if there is.... then everyone needs to take a step back, take a deep breath and really, really ask themselves......
if what they are doing is solving anything. Is their behavior really going to change anything?
Remember it takes more strength to walk away, the winner is not loudest or nastiest or the wittiest.....its the one that walks away and gets on with their life.
That is the biggest person.
That is the morally superior person.
That is victory.
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ZombieMLegendre
19:05 Dec 26 2019