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Today surprisingly i had a date. The person knew what I am. Knows I am a transgender from female to male. Knows inside I am a man. Somehow he decided to take me out for some lunch.

Then we went to the beach. We went to swim and all and asked me "why aren't you wearing a swimsuit whole piece like all other girls do?" It took me by surprise. But I answered him, "Because I am a man. " Is that why you are wearing a man's trunk?" and I answered Yes. Then He asked me why I am still wearing a top then, cause if I am a man even if I have a female breast I should be bared chest. And I said " Till I do the masectomy I shall not uncover my female chest. It is not considered appropriate in this country specially in tourist area." then he started to laugh in my face out loud. then asked me since I am wearing a trunk "can you show me your penis or you do not have one? If you are a man then show me now. put down your trunks." I said i do not have a penis yet but i do not need a penis to feel i am a man, or to show my manhood right? " then he tried to pull off my trunks and by force and I pushed him off. Then he grabbed there hard and telling me " Unless i have a pair of testicles a penis and a flat chest I remain a woman in his eyes. " I am a fake man. a FAKE. He called all his friends on the phone saying this guy is a fake man. in reality is a girl pretending to be a man.



I told him i am indeed a man although I am in the wrong gender and then he laughed at me and then pushed me hard on the ground. Honestly I never felt so much anger, and frustration and also humiliation altogether. Is this how transgender is treated? Is this fucking right? But I did not cry in front of him. I slowly got up, picked my stuff and went off but before I went away I simply told him, I do not need someone like you to define me. I do not need anyone to define who and what I am. I am a man. I am a transgender and proud of it and also I am gay. And I fucking refuse to hide it. You don't like me?? fine I was born to live only to my expectations and to no one else. and went off. But I am still deeply sore by the ignorance of people towards us. Transgender or not we are still HUMAN just like you. We are no less or more than you. So start to treat us equally.

GROW THE F*****K UP !!!!!!!!!! (to those who are not trans)

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NellMorgan
20:32 Jun 28 2013

You have always been a good person. You act more of a Gentleman that those who were born male. Being a man isn't about what's between your legs anyway. You are a kind hearted guy. You have my respect because you have always treated me with respect also.

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VRsGod
20:35 Jun 28 2013

That is tough man I can't imagine what it must be like. You are right, though you are the only one that defines you. I hope your treatment finishes soon. Once the operation is completed it won't be as bad.

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UrielBlanchard666
21:57 Jun 28 2013

Very well said and defined. And I'm very proud of you for sticking up for yourself the way you did. He was probably raised to treat some people as inferiors.

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deringerdan
02:09 Jun 29 2013

This guy needs his testicles tied to a car bumper and needs to be tugged along. Who the fuck does he think he is.**Hugs** you and for you to know if we was closer together I would make this asshat pay..

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KarminaTheDarkAngel
22:39 Jun 30 2013

I am so sorry you was treated like that .. omg i cant believe someone acted so hateful so ignorant . wait .. yeah I can .. people are such ass' full of hate .. they like to belittle others to make themselves feel better BUT dont ever let this get you down .. remember hun you are a wonderful person .. and yes you will meet jerks like this .. we all do .. and it doesnt hurt any less .. but know you are loved and you have friends who accept you the for you . People are ignorant .. But there are some who will come along and make you smile , because they see you for your beautiful spirit . **HUGS**

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