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16:35 Apr 24 2013
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for those who got broken heart and lost someone they love or simply broke up, we all know its hard and tough to accept it sometimes but life has never been easy shit on us, right?



When we fall in love , when we make new friends, then we become ecstatic!! happy and all and makes us want to hit the moon and stars, but when we break up, or loose someone by death or else simply we lost a very precious friend or got disappointed cause you thought you got a great friend or lover but betrayed you and obviously you start to blame yourself. I did it million times, and you are doing it to yourself unless you are a megalomaniac (extremely self centered ) and you dont see its your problem at all.



well when it hits us badly, we feel vulnerable and useless and other shit. Many tell us its time to move on or to let go. But the question is, can we really do that? some yes. very fast and easy. others with time and strength and will power, some others make new friends or get new love to fill the empty space, others? can never really do that at all.



well here is a song for broken hearted people not just by love but also who were lost or left behind by friends or betrayed







Mirror of the Soul


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NellMorgan
NellMorgan
18:55 Apr 24 2013

Good journal and nice song.





 

19:32 Apr 08 2013
Times Read: 528






Love and the rules of a relationship



Love is when you love someone unconditionally

Love is when you have no reason to love

the person, yet you do.

Love is when there is happiness

and sadness, poverty and richness,

popularity or barely visible to others,

when there is ugliness to others yet you

see its beauty in the person.

when there is love time is not the length its its important

but the quality in it, the very valuable things you

do together, even just staying in silence,

means a lot and important

Love is even when you are not being loved

by the other person, yet you will still love her or him.

Love is pure when you love unconditionally

with no need of a reason or happiness.

The Rules of a Relationship

are simple to be said or written then being done.

True indeed because not everyone follows them and

both or one of them end up being hurt, and become broken

while the other if not broken can only move on,



Faithfulness



is very hard to find cause of lust or greediness

or something is wrong in the relationship yet the

two are not clearing it properly.

When you love someone, but really love someone

your heart and mind and soul is set on your partner

from the time you wake up till you go to sleep

you will think of her/him, cause you only want your partner

and no one can be good as s/he.

So even if you two fight or lack in intimacy,

does not mean you have to cheat.



Trust,



In keeping trust in one to another

is hard if you already got bitten,

it's very important to be kept.

Whether your partner or you,

are a liar, or a cheater, or have a secret

or have some things that were meant to be

private, trust must be it, to certain limits though.

But if there is no trust, how can it be love?



Spaces



Giving spaces to each other is also important,

cause you are giving each other time to breath and

that helps in the relationship between you two

and also helps to those who are around you.

Both have their lives before you two met and got

together, like friends, family, work or school,

activities and other hobbies.



Respect



Respect have to be reciprocal, and in every form

if there is no respect I doubt that there can be even friendship

or family or relationship of any sort.



Intimacy



is important yet not forceful.

Best if both are in the mood for it so that

can be pleasant and the bond can remain strong

and passion never leaves.



Understanding.



well its great if there is understanding

of course but that does not mean,

that got to be all the time.

Women and men have their issues

and

even basing on no gender, people are hard to understand

themselves at times let alone each other.

But that does not mean that

you two got to break up from each.



Sacrifices



doing sacrifices for each other means respect and love

creating a bond very strong and showing each other

that you are ready to let go of things that displeases or

do things that pleases each other.

If you are not willing or your partner not willing

then you two must clear it out

before a big mess happens.



Compromises



means dealing.

Its like sacrificing one thing but then having

something in return.

Hard to do that as much as the others but compromising can be fun.

but also torturing if a person can be demanding.



Jealousy



is right to certain limit but only to certain limit

otherwise can lead only to trouble.



Balance.



Balance is good for everything in life.

fear and courage

time and spaces

secrets and lies

and honesty in the heart

to manage anger

happiness and unhappiness

and other things.

these are the rules and the real meaning of love

if there is love, a real love,

no reason is needed.

Love remains in eternity, never to be consumed.





by



Mirror of the soul.

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skyrah
skyrah
20:35 Apr 08 2013

meaningful words from heart








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