Does love it when i get on the bus and some snobby woman who was clearly born with a plumb in her mouth and a silver spoon up her arse decides to look down at me from her beak of a nose to judge me sitting in a disabled seat.
Just because i dont use a walking stick or crutches all the time does not mean im an overweight woman whos fat lardy arse cant be bothered to walk further back to the bus.
No guess what i choose not to walk that little further because whilst i am the first to admit i like to endure pain on a certain level it dont mean to say i enjoy putting my knee caps back into place because they choose to give way when my knees swell up.
So guess what if you cant hear my knees cracking when i m sitting down im sorry i shall try a little harder next time to crack just that little bit louder so that you dont judge me!
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Oceanne
16:17 Jun 07 2012
For one,just because someone hppens to feel you are taking up a handicapped seat while not being handicapped,doesnt mean she was born rich.If she was rich,I doubt shed be on that bus.
Two,what would you do if someone got on the bus who REALLY needed that seat?
Oceanne
16:19 Jun 07 2012
And I am not trying to be mean.But you talk about being judgemental,yet you are being that way yourself in assuming that anyone with money is a judgmental ass.
Do you see the contradiction in what you have posted here?
LadyXblackXRose
16:36 Jun 07 2012
Ok first up
If you had been their yourself you would have seen that she was of money by her clothing style. Manicured nails, expensive handbag, shoes which im guessing where not your typical buy at the local store along with your bread and milk. As i do tend to buy shoes when needed along with bread and milk.
Why herself was on the bus i do not know im not a physic. Her general glare at me and disapproval look of contempt was clear and apparent.
I very rarely do judge people and am use to people starring at me for many a reason which i do not need to explain to you. Usually i can ignore peoples glances and looks but not when it does come to snobbery as she was giving plenty of.
As far as would i give up my seat if someone else required it or as you put it REALLY need it.
Im human with a sense of moral of what is right and what is wrong.
Yes i would give up my seat and have done on many occassions to either a disabled or a struggling parent with a buggy and shopping.
Oceanne
17:26 Jun 07 2012
Do you know how many people I have seen who try to give others the appearance that they have money when they really dont?
Thing is,not everyone with money is an ass.and it just might have pissed her off to see you take the seat when you can walk.
LadyXblackXRose
17:42 Jun 07 2012
The bus was coming from the direction that had been on a private estate as i know most routes in my area. It is up to her if she wishes to perceive herself to have money and to keep up with the riches of high life and such. Not my business as to what her bank account says about her. But if she should choose to dress to keep up with the Jones's and behaves in such a way then i will draw my own conclusions on that.
Granted not everyone who has money is an ass. Poor people can to be an ass and spend what little money they get from the government each week on drugs, alcohol instead of loved ones and kids.
Oh and if you had read my journal entry then you would have seen that yes i can walk but not with ease, flare and a graceful of light and balance.
My knee caps come out due to a medical problem which like i have said already once to you i do need to disclose to anyone.
However what i will disclose to you is that i do attend to see a specialist every four months and shall till i take my last breath.
Just because i do not all the time use a walking aid does not mean to say that i dont have a disability.
Not all disabilities are visible.
Oceanne
21:40 Jun 07 2012
Just goes to show that we might make assumptions or judgments when we really dont know whats going on behind the scenes.Your story makes my point.She evidently assumed you werent handicapped because you can walk,and you assumed shes rich because she had on Tommy hilfiger that she very could have gotten from her employer who lives in that estate area you mentioned.
I guess what Im saying is, that everyone judges to a certain degree,so when we sit and declare hate because people are judging us..sheeiit,WE do the same damn thing.
Which,btw,I hope someday during your lifetime they can do something that might help alieve some of the pain you are in.I really do.