Eating--
* It is impolite to eat or drink something while walking down the street.
* Do not bite or clean your fingernails, gnaw on pencils, or lick your fingers in front of others.
In restaurants or when visiting it's customary to get a small, moist rolled-up towel (cold in summer, hot in winter) called an "oshibori" to wipe their hands with. It's impolite to wipe the face and neck with it.
* In Japan it is impolite to pour your own drink when eating with others--you pour your companion's drink and your companion pours yours.
If you don't want any more to drink, leave your glass full.
* It's customary to say "Itadakimasu" before eating and "Gochisosama deshita" after eating, especially if you're being treated, as well as "Kanpai" for "Cheers".
When sharing a dish, put what you take on your own plate before eating it.
* Do not use your chopsticks to skewer food, move dishes around, and
NEVER dish out food to another using the same ends you just ate from--use the top ends.
* Don't use your chopsticks to point at somebody.
Don't leave your chopsticks standing up out of your food.
* It is normal in Japan to pick up your rice or miso soup bowl and hold it under your chin to keep stuff from falling.
* Traditional Japanese food is served on several small plates, and it's normal to alternate between dishes instead of fully eating one dish after another.
* Don't leave a mess on your plate--fold your napkins neatly.
* Do not put soy sauce on your rice--it isn't meant for that.
* Do not put sugar or cream in Japanese tea.
There is no real custom like "help yourself". Wait until the host offers something.
* If you act as host, you should anticipate your guest's needs (cream/sugar, napkins, etc.).
If you must use a toothpick, at least cover your mouth with your other hand.
* Be aware that in Japan it is normal to make slurping sounds when you're eating noodles.
Everyday Living --
* DO NOT BE LATE for appointments.
* There is no custom of "Ladies First".
* Avoid excessive physical and eye contact--
* It is polite to put "-san" after anothers name, or "-chan" after a young girls name, or "-kun" after a boy's name, but NEVER use these after your own.
* Avoid shouting loudly at someone to get their attention--wave, or go up to them.
* If you have to blow your nose, leave the room, or at the very least try to face away
from other people--and use a tissue--not a handkerchief!
* Don't wear tattered clothes outside, nor socks with holes when visiting someone.
*The Japanese gesture for "Come here" is to put your hand palm out, fingers up, and raise and lower your fingers a few times. The western gesture of palm-up, closing your hand is only used to call animals to you.
* The Japanese gesture for no is fanning your hand sideways a few times in front of your face.
Japanese residences have thin walls and poor insulation.
* Don't wear your slippers into a tatami (straw) mat room.
* It's customary to sit on the floor in a tatami room (called "washitsu").
* Don't wear your slippers into the genkan (at the entrance to a home, where the shoes are kept), nor outside.
* Don't wear the toilet room slippers outside the toilet room.
* It's better to wear shoes slipped on easily when visiting someone.
* Japanese wear kimono or yukata (light summer kimono) with the left side over the right.
* It's polite to initially refuse someone's offer of help. Japanese may also initially refuse your offer even if they really want it. Traditionally an offer is made 3 times.
* When they laugh Japanese women often cover their mouths with their hand. This comes from an old Buddhist notion that showing bone is unclean, as well as a horrendous lack of orthodontics in Japan. If you're a woman you have no obligation to copy this, but you will soon notice how frequently Japanese do this.
* It's polite to bring some food (gift-wrapped in more formal situations) or drinks when you visit someone.
Gift giving is very important in Japan, but extravagant gifts require an equal or slightly higher extravagant gift in return. Avoid giving pricey gifts.
* It's polite to see a guest to the door (or the front of a building even) when they leave.
* When someone visits it's polite to turn their shoes around and put them together so they can put them on easily.
* This is older custom, but in a home the guest is seated facing the room entrance. The highest ranking host sits across from the guest. we will follow this tradition.
* Japanese often compliment each other to promote good will, but it is polite to deny how well you speak Japanese, how nice you look, etc.
* In Japan the whole family uses the same bath water -- as a guest you will probably be given the privilege of using the bath water first. Do NOT drain the water out after you have finished your bath!
Japanese * Phonetic * English
Ohayo gozaimasu (Good Morning)
Konnichiwa (Good Afternoon/Hello)
Konbanwa (Good Evening)
Hajime-mashite (How do you do?)
Omeni kakarete koei desu (Nice to meet you)
Watashi wa *** desu (My name is ****)
Sayonara (Goodbye)
Mata oai shima-shou (See you again)
Arigato (Thank you)
Arigato-gozaimashita (Thank you very much)
Kanpai (Cheers)
Itadakimasu - (say before eating, )
Gochisosama deshita - (say after eating, )
Seasonal Kanzashi
The hair ornaments KANZASHI for a Maiko-san, Geisha-san matched to the current seasonal flowers.
Please learn the flower and it's month your will be tested next week.
January
Shouchikubai
February
Plum Blossoms
March
Nanohana Blossoms
April
Cherry Blossoms
May
Wisteria, Iris
June
Willow
July
The Gion Festival ( RoundFan )
August
Pampas grass
September
Bellflower
October
Chrysanthemum
November
Autumnal leaves
December
Mochi-ba
Assignemnt - You will "HOST" A Tea Ceremony for four guests, on the chalkboard you are to tell your fellow apprentice exactly by sequence order how to do that...The way you will do this is as the you were acting the part in a play.
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SCENE 1: The Guests
The four guests arrive and go into the machiai (waiting room) lead by the hanto (assistant host), and is offered sayu (hot water).
The first guest is picked by anonymous vote through nod of agreement.
The Guests are lead into the garden, the first guest leading the others behind the hanto. They wait for the teishu (host) by sitting on the koshikake machiai (waiting bench).
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SCENE TWO: Teishu's Preparation
Teishu fills the basin with fresh water and purifies her hands and mouth, and then continues through the chumon (gate) to receive her guests.
Teishu welcomes the guests with a bow, silent.
Teishu then leads the hanto, the main guest and then the guests in that order through the chumon.
At the stone basin, the guests and hanto purifies themselves as Teishu does and enter the soan (teahouse) through a sliding door that is just three feet high. To enter, the Guests bow.
Last Guest puts the latch on the door when closing it.
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SCENE THREE: Tea Ceremony
(gong sounds)
Teishu bows before she enters the room with the chawan (tea bowl, which contains the chasen (whisk), which rests upon a chakin (cloth), and sit.
The Four Guests sit in order that they get served, the main guest at the far left.
Teishu bows to the four guests, then facing the kama (hot water kettle) and place the chawan (tea bowl) in front of her, before the kama (hot water kettle). On top and laying across the chawan (tea bowl) is the chashaku (tea scoop).
Teishu moves the chaire (tea jar) to the right, and place the chawan (tea bowl) to the left in front of the mizusashi (cold water container).
Teishu then place the kensui (waste water bowl) to her left with the chakin (tea cloth) inside.
Teishu then takes the lid off the kama (hot water kettle) and places it on the futaiki (kama lid rest).
Teishu places the hishaku (bamboo ladle) so it rests on the edge of the kama (hot water kettle), handle extending across it towards her.
Teishu then sit in the center of the tatami (bamboo/straw floor mat) facing the area she has set for the preparation of the tea.
Teishu silently offers guests namagashi (sweets).
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SCENE FOUR: Preparing Tea For the First Guest
Teishu takes the fukusa (silk cloth) from her obi (belt) and snaps it, before folding it twice over to wipe the chashaku (tea scoop), and then use it to lift the lid from the kama (hot water kettle) and rest the lid on the futaiki (kama lid rest).
Teishu uses some of the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) to rinse the bowl, using the chasen (tea whisk) to help do so, and when finished, she pours the water into the kensui (waste water bowl).
Teishu then uses the chakin (cloth) to wipe the chawan (tea bowl), and set it down by the chaire (matcha tea jar).
Teishu then uses the chashaku (tea scoop) to put the matcha (green tea powder) in, filling the chashaku (tea scoop) three times.
Teishu then uses the hishaku (bamboo water ladle) to pour the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) into the chawan (tea bowl) and use the chasen (bamboo whisk) to mix the matcha (green tea powder) and sayu up to make it matcha uji (jade froth of matcha).
When the matcha uji is frothy, Teishu bows as she hands it over to the Main Guest of the four.
Main Guest then bows silently to the other guests in apology for being the first to drink.
He puts the chawan with the bottom resting on the palm of this left hand, the right protecting it, and turns it around to admire the bowl before drinking, which compliments on the tea.
After drained, the Main Guest gives the chawan to Teishu.
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SCENE FIVE: Preparing Tea For the Second Guest
Teishu takes the fukusa (silk cloth) from her obi (belt) and snaps it, before folding it twice over to wipe the chashaku (tea scoop), and then use it to lift the lid from the kama (hot water kettle) and rest the lid on the futaiki (kama lid rest).
Teishu uses some of the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) to rinse the bowl, using the chasen (tea whisk) to help do so, and when finished, she pours the water into the kensui (waste water bowl).
Teishu then uses the chakin (cloth) to wipe the chawan (tea bowl), and set it down by the chaire (matcha tea jar).
Teishu then uses the chashaku (tea scoop) to put the matcha (green tea powder) in, filling the chashaku (tea scoop) three times.
Teishu then uses the hishaku (bamboo water ladle) to pour the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) into the chawan (tea bowl) and use the chasen (bamboo whisk) to mix the matcha (green tea powder) and sayu up to make it matcha uji (jade froth of matcha).
When the matcha uji is frothy, Teishu bows as she hands it over to the Second Guest hands the chawan to Teishu.
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SCENE SIX: Preparing Tea For the Third Guest
Teishu takes the fukusa (silk cloth) from her obi (belt) and snaps it, before folding it twice over to wipe the chashaku (tea scoop), and then use it to lift the lid from the kama (hot water kettle) and rest the lid on the futaiki (kama lid rest).
Teishu uses some of the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) to rinse the bowl, using the chasen (tea whisk) to help do so, and when finished, she pours the water into the kensui (waste water bowl).
Teishu then uses the chakin (cloth) to wipe the chawan (tea bowl), and set it down by the chaire (matcha tea jar).
Teishu then uses the chashaku (tea scoop) to put the matcha (green tea powder) in, filling the chashaku (tea scoop) three times.
Teishu then uses the hishaku (bamboo water ladle) to pour the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) into the chawan (tea bowl) and use the chasen (bamboo whisk) to mix the matcha (green tea powder) and sayu up to make it matcha uji (jade froth of matcha).
When the matcha uji is frothy, Teishu bows as she hands it over to the Third Guest.
the Third Guest takes the bowl with the bottom on his left palm, the right hand protecting it, as he turns it to admire the chawan, and then drinks.
Third Guest hands the chawan to Teishu.
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SCENE SEVEN: Preparing Tea For the Fourth Guest
Teishu takes the fukusa (silk cloth) from her obi (belt) and snaps it, before folding it twice over to wipe the chashaku (tea scoop), and then use it to lift the lid from the kama (hot water kettle) and rest the lid on the futaiki (kama lid rest).
Teishu uses some of the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) to rinse the bowl, using the chasen (tea whisk) to help do so, and when finished, she pours the water into the kensui (waste water bowl).
Teishu then uses the chakin (cloth) to wipe the chawan (tea bowl), and set it down by the chaire (matcha tea jar).
Teishu then uses the chashaku (tea scoop) to put the matcha (green tea powder) in, filling the chashaku (tea scoop) three times.
Teishu then uses the hishaku (bamboo water ladle) to pour the sayu (hot water) from the kama (hot water kettle) into the chawan (tea bowl) and use the chasen (bamboo whisk) to mix the matcha (green tea powder) and sayu up to make it matcha uji (jade froth of matcha).
When the matcha uji is frothy, Teishu bows as she hands it over to the Fourth Guest.
The Fourth Guest takes the bowl with the bottom on his left palm, the right hand protecting it, as he turns it to admire the chawan, and then drinks.
Fourth Guest hands the chawan to Teishu.
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SCENE EIGHT: Clearing the Area, Cleaning Utensils, For Display
Teishu rinses it by taking the sayu from the kama, and clean the chashaku and chawan with sayu and the chakin.
Teishu hands the cleaned chashaku and chawan to the Guests for examination.
Teishu then places the chashaku, the chasen and chakin in the chawan, place water from the tsubaki into the kama, and puts the lid over it. Teishu then puts the lid of the tsubaki on the tsubaki, before taking the lid off the futaiki (kama lid rest) to cover the kama again. The fukusa is snapped again before folding the edge into the obi so it displayed itself.
Teishu bows to the Guests as they bow back.
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SCENE NINE: Conversation
Teishu and the Guests have conversation.
Assignment - Tea Ceremony Ritual - Due 3/15/2010
Posted by okasan ~ myimako at 12:53 AM on March 03, 2010
Assignemnt - You will "HOST" A Tea Ceremony for four guests, on the chalkboard you are to tell your fellow apprentice exactly by sequence order how to do that...The way you will do this is as the you were acting the part in a play. This assisgnment is to be completed no Later then March 15, 2010, I ask that you show your work, you may do this in the form of an attachment to the following email address thespicecupboardstaff@mail.com. The actual assignment itself will be posted in the Essay Category.
Everyone must complete this assignment absolutely no exceptions, The Serving of the tea is one of the most important services that a submissve geisha performs.
I have provided with information, and the website and shikomi website also give you vital information take notes, this is the most important assignment to date, I expect you to do a good job.
Watch the Video - Learn from it, experience it, and practice paractice practice - Actually perform the ceremony before you complete the assignment.
Japanese Terms: Tea Ceremony
a) Teahouse
teahouse – soan
straw mat – tatami
small entrance – nijiriguchi
preparation room/area – mizuya
b) Tea utensils
tea scoop – chashaku
bowl – chawan
whisk – chasen
cloth for wiping bowl – chakin
the host enters with the chawan (bowl), sits facing the kama and places the chawan against the wall. Inside the chawan a chasen (tea whisk) rests upon a chakin (white linen cloth used to wipe the chawan). Across the chawan is a chashaku (tea scoop) made of bamboo, wood, or ivory. The chashaku is patterned after the old Chinese medicine scoop. The chaire is moved to the right and the chawan is placed to the left in front of the mizusashi. The chawan is an open receptacle (yin), while the chaire is a closed receptacle (yang). These positions are opposite the yang and yin positions of the kama and mizusashi. The kama is hot (yang); the mizusashi is cold (yin).
The drinking of koicha is the central focus of the chaji. The guests have been prepared physically, mentally, and spiritually. Since one bowl is prepared for all of the guests to share, the drinking is an act of communion. The tea not only stimulates, but is thought to bring healing as well.
Psychic healing is often in the form of the unification of disparate emotions. Mythological resolutions act as unifications of opposing elements. The making of tea is a means of balancing the opposites of yin and yang, heaven and earth, the forces of male and female, light and dark, the outgoing and ingoing.
The host leaves and returns with a rinse water container (kensui). In this is a bamboo lid rest (futacki); the inverted cup of the water ladle (hishaku) rests on the edge of the kensui, its handle extending across the kensui. As an open receptacle, the kensui is yin, as is the cup of the hishaku in its upright position. But when the hishaku is inverted it becomes yang as it rests across the kensui.
The host sits in the center of the mat facing the preparation area. Although this area is ruled by the I Ching trigram for Heaven (yang), the number ascribed to it from the Lo Shu is 2, which represents Earth (yin). The left side of the body is yin, the right side is yang. As the host sits, the yang side faces the yin mizusashi and the yin side faces the yang kama.
After the host holds the hishaku in front of the heart for a moment of reflection in a position called ‘mirror ladle’ (kagami bishaku), the futaoki is placed near the ita on which the furo rests. The hishaku is placed on the futaoki with an audible gesture. Guests and host bow. The host is ready to make tea.
The ceiling of the tea house is in three levels: highest where the guests enter, middle where the guests sit, lowest where the tea is made. The name for ceiling in Japanese is lenjo, from characters meaning heaven and water well. Thus, the Well of Heaven is closest to the host when the host is making tea. The host then becomes the intermediary between heaven and earth; in other words, the host assumes the role of priest.
THE BALANCE OF OPPOSITE
The chawan and chaire are placed in front of the host where they now rest on a line separating yin and yang. The chaire is taken out of its bag and purified with a square silk cloth (fukusa) which represents the spirit of the host. The customary fukusa for a man is purple, for a woman, red. Purple, in Japan, is considered a yin color; red a yang color. Hence, the physical yang qualities of a man are offset by the yin of the fukusa and vice versa.
When the chaire is placed in froth of the mizusashi again it is put on the left and the chasen is put on the right. The chasen is always used with water and may be considered yin. These positions correspond to the yang and yin placements of the hot and cold water. After the chashaku and chawan are purified, the powdered dry tea (yang) is emptied into the chawan and mixed with water (yin) to become undifferentiated yin and yang or the Buddhist Void, the Primal Source of all things.
THE MOMENT OF MYSTERY
The traditional chawan used for koicha is a Raku-style bowl. This is a hand-crafted bowl made from a slab of clay drawn up on four sides and carved into its final form. They are irregular and jet black in color. The life-giving green of creation rests within the blackness of the Night of Chaos, the preamble to birth. The chawan is passed among the guests who each take three swallows. And so the Primal Substance enters them and they are energized by its presence.
What the hero seeks through his intercourse with (the gods and goddesses) is therefore not finally themselves, but their tea, the power of their sustaining substance. This miraculous energy substance and this alone is the Imperishable; the names and forms of the deities who everywhere embody, dispense, and represent it come and go. This is the miraculous energy of the thunderbolts of Zeus, Yahwey, the Supreme Buddha, the fertility of the rain of Viracocha, the virtue announced by the bell rung in the Mass at the consecration and the light of the ultimate illumination of the saint and sage.
The tea is bitter (yang) but soon afterwards a sweet taste (yin) floods the mouth.
The guests look at the bowl more closely, then return it to the host. After another bow, the utensils are cleansed and returned to their original places. The guests ask to see the chaire, chashaku, and shifuku - often objects of great beauty and always of some significance to host and guests. The host takes the other tea equipment (except furo and kama) from the room while the guests leisurely look at the utensils. Later the host returns and explains what the objects are, then leaves with them.
THE RETURN
After the trials of the journey, ritual cleansing, initiation, death and rebirth, the hero at last fulfills the quest for an encounter with the Mystery. It is now time to prepare for the return.
If necessary, the host builds up the fire again, then serves a tray of sweets, different from those served before koicha. Using a different tea container and chawan, the host makes a bowl of thin tea (usucha) for each of the guests. The atmosphere of this part of the chaji is lighter, more conversational, but not frivolous. This tea is refreshment before departure.
After the utensils used for this tea are examined, the host and guests exchange final greetings. The guests leave and gather near the tsukubai, from which the ladle has been removed. They turn toward the nijiriguchi where the host is sitting and bow silently. The guests turn to leave and the host closes the nijiriguchi and locks it. The last guest locks the middle gate. The guests go directly to the waiting room. After a final bow, they depart one by one in the order of their seating in the tea room. When the last guest has left, the host closes and locks the main gate, the guests do not look back.
CONCLUSION
The symbolic life in some form is a prerequisite for psychic health. Without it the ego is alienated from its supra-personal source and falls victim to a kind of cosmic anxiety.
And there is cause for anxiety. The great accomplishments of modern technology have left us poised between the promise of a new world and complete destruction. The two marvels of electronics, the computer and the television, which presented the possibility of providing the least expensive means of education and cultural uplift to the largest number of people, have instead rendered millions intellectual zombies. We have been severed from the ‘ground of being’ by a brightly colored, dazzling display of electronic wizardry.
The weapons of war have become more powerful and more sophisticated. The great frontier of space, fraught with exciting potential, can just as easily become the last refuge for survivors, if any, of a planet bent on global suicide.
Today the problem is nothing if not to render the modern world spiritually significant. Nor can the great world religions, as at present understood, meet the requirement. For they have become associated with the causes of the factions, as instruments of propaganda and self congratulations. The universal triumph of the secular state has thrown all religious organizations into such a definitely secondary, and finally ineffectual, position that religious pantomime is hardly more today than a sanctimonious exercise.
Our split selves can be healed, but it will not be society which will initiate the process. The healing must come from within each of us, not from without. By tending to our wounded psyches individually, society as a whole will be mended also.
Each of the Japanese Ways strives to penetrate the nature of the eternal, to experience All-Oneness. But this only succeeds when the seeker on the Way gives up the self and experiences selflessness, muga, and emptiness, ku. It is a silence so deep as to be audible, a sound which: suddenly permits the listener to experience All-Oneness, once he has attained full maturity. And such: a silence also reigns over the Tea Way, which in the last analysis represents the Way to the Self.
The Way of Tea
is but one portion of the richly textured tapestry of life reflected in the myths of the world.
People needed and etiquette:
One host or hostess
4 guests; one of them is the main guest
Guests are dressed in kimonos or in formal Western clothes
It is considered rude to show up late! Be at your host’s house at least 20 minutes in
advance.
Be silent during the ceremony! Communication only happens through body language.
The guests observe what the host is doing �� it creates a peaceful, calm, almost
meditative atmosphere!
� Try to follow the rules as closely as possible! However, don’t worry if you make a
mistake; even the greatest tea masters make mistakes sometimes, and it takes a lot of
practice to know everything about a Japanese tea ceremony.
Utensils needed:
Cushions/chairs
Hot water
Tea
Tea bowls
Cloth
Whisk
Tea spoon
Sequence of Events:
-Guests walk through the tea garden and clean their hands in a water basin
-Guests approach the teahouse; before crawling through a small entrance, they take off
their shoes; inside they sit down on cushions/chairs
-Host bows before entering the tea-room
-Host brings in utensils: water jar, kettle, cloth, tea spoon, tea caddy (jar with tea powder,
held in the left hand), tea bowl with whisk inside (held in left hand) and places them
around the hearth
-Host sits in front of the hearth, where water is heated. Maybe tea can be heated in the
school kitchen or with the use of an electrical water heater
-Host rinses the bowl ceremoniously before powder and water can be mixed
-Host puts 3 spoons of powdered tea in bowl. If regular tea bags are used, the next step
can be omitted
-Host pours hot water over powder, and the mixture has to be stirred until it becomes
frothy (similar to beating eggs or whipping cream)
-Tea is first served to the main guest
-Main guest bows to fellow guests to apologize for being the first to drink
-Main guest takes the bowl �� proper way to hold tea bowl: put it on the palm of left hand
and protect it with right hand
-Main guest drinks, thereby complimenting the host on flavor, consistency and taste of
tea; empty bowl is returned to the host
-Host wipes the bowl with the linen cloth; then prepares tea for second guest, and so forth
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