BDSM/Gor Slaves18:40 Jan 15 2008
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This entry will contain my own personal opinions/ perspective of the whole subject, if Y/you agree with it or not could really care less. That may sound fiesty on my part but am a fiesty being so love it or hate it. This can also be used as a good reference of the lifestyle if Y/you so chose to.
Variety of people would/could say BDSM/Gor is wrong, disgraceful, or unacceptable. Frankly truely believe Y/you dominate or submite to anyone, seeing it or not. Y/you are either the type to submite or to dominate, there are even people who can do both "switches".
To submit to Another is giving trust and some control by own limitations. It shouldn't be considered weak, for it takes strong will to even allow that type of bond. Myself, well fully willing to submite, but also still need own authority. Doesn't mean get to desrepect your Owner, for when get some authority are focused what is important. For example: jobs or children. Those are priorities that the Master/Mistress should understand and not get in the way of.
There are times to where I will not be dominated on, as to oppose of the raising, discipline, and education reasons of my child. It is my right as a parent no matter what Someone's status is.
Can a sub/slave be fiesty and disobident? Well, to a certain degree as long as it is in good fun. Still have to watch it though. I like to be rebellious with Wraith (Master & Lover) at times for it does spark up a mood and is fun. I do not go over my boundries with Him intentionally, even though has happened. Mostly be honest, listen as much as you can and try keep your cool for never really solves anything by just yelling.
BDSM vs Gor, wow. Well still has the same deals except Gor is way more harsher. Personally wouldn't really want to be Gorean slave. Have read some of the John Norman books of Gor. Can be pretty good guideline for basics. Was shocking enough my own mother even knows what BDSM/Gor even is, sorta makes me wonder what she does when not around HAHA!!
Slaves/subs with attitude, hell yea. It is not bad at all for a Master/Mistress to have one that can hold thier own. If the Owner is unable to get to them in time of a life threatening manner or just plainly opening a can of whoop ass; Y/you'd think They would love the fact can protect themselves. And at times when the Owner is vulnerable can protect the One they cherish, support, and love.
Rules of the Lifestyle:
1. Don't disrespect your Owner, or other Tops.
2. Never Ever take Someones slave/sub, it practically considered kidnapping and is a big no no.
3. Slaves/subs are not here to serve Tops if You are not their Owner, and can't force them to either. Unowned slaves/subs can decide to serve You or not.
Now taking damn break from this write more later. Spank Y/you very much!
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