My X is a complet butt-wipe!!!!!!! Ok, I am being very G-rated in my comments regarding this man. He called our auto insurance a few weeks ago, notifying them that we need two seperate policies. The day he called, my auto was dropped IMMEDIATELY. I have a strong feeling he was informed of this but did not truly listen o the agent. He tells me when I "have a chance" to call the insurance to establish my new policy, and not to worry that my auto would be covered until the end of April.
Being the busy person that I am, I just thought ok, I will call them at the end of the month and get it all squared away. Then I get the bomb that I was driving around uninsured since April 12th!!!! Mr. Dippi-Do-Dah ASSUMED I would remain covered because our joint policy was paid off until April 30th.
Enough said....Rachel and I are COVERED today, and accident-free. HOORAY! :0P
....it was a last-minute decision. I am just TIRED. Wanted a day to hang out at home, do some cleaning, quiet hours away from the kids! With my schedule as it is, I only have Sunday as a full day off. I will eventually have Saturday back as well, but not for a few weeks as far as I can tell.
It can be very difficult emotionally to deal with my now ex-spouse of roughly 3 weeks. We ARE divorced, yet he does not want to mention the "D" word and acts like everything is as it was before! His denial is driving me crazy, and I am now standing firm on setting boundaries with him. No, I don't want to stay for dinner, give a hug hello, etc. etc.
I had to sign paperwork to have HIS former Investment monies split up and put into my name. I made it very clear I was there just to sign what I needed to and give Rachel a hug as she is staying with daddy tonight.
I am doing my best to deal with this situation. It is extremely painful and my heart aches to no end. I'm grieving, and allowing myself to cry when I need to. Took some time off work for much needed alone time. Thursday I will most likely go over to my local community college and see what classes are available for the summer or fall session. Want Rachel and I to get our portraits taken in the afternoon to both decorate our new home and to share online here as well.
Off to read, watch TV, heal, cry, WHATEVER.
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We're here for you hon, any time you need to talk ((hugs))
Call me on your me time expedition!
I have gone through this myself. If you ever need to talk, I am here. HUGS
The pollen count in AZ is very high this spring. The last few days I wake up with very itchy, watery eyes and lots of mucus! :0( Grabbing breakfast soon and taking allergy meds! *sneezes*
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LostKitten
07:59 Apr 30 2008
OMG I can't believe he did that. But it is familar territory with me as well. I'm glad that you found out before any tickets or anything. It will get easier over time. I will help you through it if need be. *hugs*
nobodysfallenangel
10:37 Apr 30 2008
Dude your ex is a douche! That must've been the reason you dumped his forgetful ass! LOL!
Thank god you two are ok:)
TheHellequin
18:43 Apr 30 2008
jeeBus hun glad you are OK