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I do not have to like any particular person if I choose not to like them.

If that person is not a good person, does not do good things, has not done anything for me and has beat up my sister and I choose to not speak or see him then that is my choice.

If I lose a sister over that, then that is her loss, not mine.

I choose who I want to be around and who I want to be around me and my family.

I chose a couple years ago to not be around him anymore.

He beat my sister really bad. She had bruises from head to toe and of course, she went back with him.

My parents, actually my stepmom feels that I am the one with the problem because I didn't forgive him nor do I want to be around him.

I told her that I have no hole in my life without him. I am better for not forgiving. She thinks she would lose a daughter if she didn't accept him or forgive. I say she could've lost a daughter the day he beat her badly.

I know that being around people like him is just bad news. He is the type of person who preys on

weak minded individuals. He knows who he can control.

My sister came very close to becoming her own woman again and making her own decisions and life. Now, she is right back in lala land with him pulling her strings.

I say she is grown and can make her own decisions and I will love her no matter what but I do not have to accept that fuckwad!

I do not sit around and talk about him nor do I even care if he lives or dies.

I have no interest in what he says or does.

I just don't like the fact that my family thinks I am the one with the problem because I won't forgive him.

I know most people do not listen when I tell them when someone is bad news.

I have a good sense about it and I am usually right.

I do know that eventually he will strike her again.

And even though I prefer to not lose my sister to an untimely death or see her hurt like that again, I know she will never get away unless she wants to do so.

Has anyone ever had an experience like that? I mean where family members readily forget the pain and hurt that one causes them and forgive easily.

I honestly have no pain whatsoever for not forgiving.

I only know that I do not have to be around him nor my family and that is that.

I would hate to know that if my worse half beat me down that my family would easily forgive him.

I know that if it was me, I wouldn't give anyone a chance to do it again. But it isn't.

And I am done talking about it for years now. I only thought about it today because everyone is in denial that this person is such a good person and they just don't see all the things.

They are living behind rose colored glasses.

And I did bring it up because my lil bro finally sees what he is! He got to feel the insanity that is that horrible monster and he finally believes me when I say that guy is so fucked up!