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Velcome,

as you know we are new here. We do not know yet how to get around. So please bare with us. I guess this is the place where we write what we feel. But my question is, if we write how or what we feel, ho do we know if we will be bashed or not or respected in what we write? I do not judge others untill I am judge. I don't like to judge, not my place. Not cause of the religion aspects, but just cause how we are brought up and train. So maybe someone will answer our question/s or not. But we would love to have some insights. Lastly, on the friends list, it says I am on two friends list, but I do not know how to find out who they are so I can return the favor. Does anyone know or do I have to be an Paid Member? Thank you all and a Deadly Hellowee.