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Now this article pisses me off due to the fact that the short one and I have been to sea world since this attack and the whale in question has not been used in the show since......It aggravates me that people will use someones tragedy to get money......



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Posted: 10:37 am EDT August 27, 2010Updated: 1:42 pm EDT August 27, 2010

ORLANDO, Fla. -- SeaWorld released a statement Thursday evening claiming that the lawyer for a family suing the company threatened to have them appear on Oprah. The family has sued the theme park after witnessing the whale attack that killed trainer Dawn Brancheau in February.



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"SeaWorld was contacted in March by an attorney claiming to represent the Connell family who threatened to have the family appear on Oprah Winfrey's talk show if the company did not immediately agree to a cash payment," the company wrote in the statement.



The family's lawyer denied it Friday and, on an early morning program, said he wanted SeaWorld to take some kind of responsibility.



The parents say that their 10-year-old son is traumatized from seeing the violent attack. The lawsuit seeks damages in excess of $15,000 for the boy's condition, which includes panic attacks and anxiety.



"It's been six months ago, it happened on Tuesday, and things aren't getting any better. He's been getting a little better, but he's been having nightmares again last week. It just seems to not be going away at all," the boy's mother Suzanne Connell said.



The family is also suing the theme park for negligence, saying SeaWorld decided to keep the killer whale even though the whale had a violent history, including killing a man who sneaked into the pool in 1999.



*Side Note* The man in question who was a homless man hid in a bathroom until after park closing and decided to go into the tank and play with Tilly....here's that article....http://cbs4.com/pets/sea.world.death.2.1517370.html





it just makes me angry that people decide to claim that these animals are dangerous when they have the are some of the best taken care of animals in the world and that goes for any any animal in any zoo

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I've been into this movement for a while now....and as it's gone global I should share it with you...



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Limerence is an involuntary cognitive and emotional state of intense romantic desire for another person. The term was coined by psychologist Dorothy Tennov to describe the ultimate, near-obsessive form of romantic love.[1] Limerence is sometimes also referred to as infatuation, or is colloquially known as a crush, but in reality it is something much different. In common speech, infatuation includes aspects of immaturity and extrapolating from insufficient information, and is usually short-lived.



The concept is an attempt at a scientific study into the nature of romantic love. Limerence can often be what is meant when one expresses having intense feelings of attachment and preoccupations with the love object. It can be experienced as intense joy or as extreme despair, depending on whether the feelings are reciprocated.



According to Tennov, there are at least two types of love: limerence, what she calls "loving attachment", and "loving affection," the bond that exists between an individual and his or her parents and children.[2]



Limerence is characterized by intrusive thinking and pronounced sensitivity to external events that reflect the disposition of the limerent object towards the individual. Basically, it is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoned passion or love; addictive love. Usually, one is inspired with an intense passion or admiration for someone. Limerence can be difficult to understand for those who have never experienced it, and it is thus often dismissed by nonlimerents as ridiculous fantasy or a construct of romantic fiction.[3]



Origins



The concept of limerence first originated in Tennov's research in the mid-1960s. She interviewed over 500 people on the topic of love. Tennov coined the term "limerence" in 1977, publishing it in her 1979 book "Love and Limerence: The Experience of Being in Love".



Tennov differentiates between limerence and other emotions by asserting that love involves concern for the other person's welfare and feeling. While limerence does not require it, those concerns may certainly be incorporated.



Affection and fondness exist only as a disposition towards another person, irrespective of whether those feelings are reciprocated, whereas limerence demands return. Physical contact with the object is neither essential nor sufficient to an individual experiencing limerence, unlike one experiencing sexual attraction.



A "crush" is often used to associate with children or teenagers who have a physical attraction.

[edit] Components



Limerence involves intrusive thinking about the limerent object.[3] Other characteristics include acute longing for reciprocation, fear of rejection, and unsettling shyness in the limerent object's presence. In cases of unrequited limerence, transient relief may be found by vividly imagining reciprocation from the limerent object.



Feelings of limerence can be intensified through adversity, obstacles, or distance. A limerent person may have acute sensitivity to any act, thought, or condition that can be interpreted favorably. This may include a tendency to devise, fabricate, or invent "reasonable" explanations for why neutral actions are a sign of hidden passion in the limerent object.



A person experiencing limerence has a general intensity of feeling that leaves other concerns in the background. In their thoughts, a limerent person tends to emphasize what is admirable in the limerent object and to avoid any negative or problematic attributes.

[edit] Intrusive thinking



During the height of limerence, thoughts of the limerent object (or person) are at once persistent, involuntary and intrusive. Limerence is first and foremost a condition of cognitive obsession. All events, associations, stimuli, and experiences return thoughts to the limerent object with unnerving consistency.



The constant thoughts about the limerent object define all other experiences. If a certain thought has no previous connection with the limerent object, immediately one is made. Limerent fantasy is unsatisfactory unless rooted in reality,[3] because the fantasizer may want the fantasy to seem realistic and somewhat possible.



Fantasies that are concerned with far-fetched ideas are usually dropped by the fantasizer.[3] Sometimes it is retrospective; actual events are replayed from memory with great vividness. This form predominates when what is viewed as evidence of possible reciprocation can be re-experienced (a kind of selective or revisionist history).



Otherwise, the long fantasy is anticipatory; it begins in the everyday world and climaxes at the attainment of the limerent goal. A limerent fantasy can also involve an unusual, often tragic, event.



The long fantasies form bridges between the limerent's ordinary life and that intensely desired ecstatic moment. The duration and complexity of a fantasy depend on the availability of time and freedom from distractions. The bliss of the imagined moment of consummation is greater when events imagined to precede it are possible.



In fact they often represent grave departures from the probable. Not always is it entirely pleasant, and when rejection seems likely the thoughts focus on despair, sometimes to the point of suicide. The pleasantness or unpleasantness of the state seems almost unrelated to the intensity of the reaction.



Although the direction of feeling, i.e. happy versus unhappy, shifts rapidly, the intensity of intrusive and involuntary thinking alters less rapidly, and alters only in response to an accumulation of experiences with the particular limerent object.



Fantasies are occasionally dreamed by the one experiencing limerence. Dreams give out strong emotion and happiness when experienced, but often end with despair when the subject awakens. Dreams can reawaken strong feelings toward the limerent object after the feelings have declined.

[edit] Fear of rejection



Along with the emphasis on positive qualities perceived in the limerent object, and preoccupation with the hope for return of feelings, there is a fear that limerence will be met by the very opposite of reciprocation: rejection. Considerable self-doubt and uncertainty is experienced and it causes pain, but also enhances desire to a certain extent.



However in most cases, this is what helps to eventually destroy the limerence if a suitably long period of time has passed without reciprocation.



Limerent fear of rejection is usually confined to shyness in the presence of the limerent object, but it can also spread to situations involving other potential limerent objects, though generally it does not affect other spheres of life.



Although it appears that limerence blossoms under some forms of adversity, extreme caution and shyness may prevent a relationship from occurring, even when both parties are interested. This results from a fear of exposing one's undesirable characteristics to the limerent object.

[edit] Hope



Limerence develops and is sustained when there is a certain balance of hope and uncertainty. The base for limerent hope is not in objective reality but reality as it is perceived. The inclination is to sift through nuances of speech and subtleties of behavior for evidence of limerent hope. "Little things" are noticed and endlessly analyzed for meaning.



The belief that the limerent object does not and will not reciprocate can only come about with great difficulty. Limerence can be carried quite far before acknowledgment of rejection is genuine, especially if it has not been addressed openly by the object of limerence.



Excessive concern over trivia may not be entirely unfounded. Body language can indicate a return of feeling. What the limerent object said and did is recalled with vividness. Alternative meanings of those behaviors recalled are searched out.



Each word and gesture is permanently available for review, especially those interpreted as evidence in favor of "return of feeling." When objects, people, places or situations are encountered with the limerent object, they are vividly remembered, especially if the limerent object 'interacted' with them in some way.

[edit] Physical effects



The physiological correlations of limerence are heart palpitations, trembling, pallor, flushing, pupil dilation and general weakness. Awkwardness, stuttering, shyness, confusion predominate at the behavioral level, dizziness, Syncope (Fainting/Passing out), Illness (Sickness, dizziness, headaches, etc.), and loss of appetite.



There is apprehension, nervousness, and anxiety due to terrible worry that any action may bring about disaster. Many of the commonly associated physiological reactions are the result of the limerent fear. Some people however may find that these effects come most strongly either immediately at or some time after contact with the object of limerence, and this is accompanied with an acute feeling of ecstasy or despair, depending on the turn of events beforehand.



The super-sensitivity that is heightened by fear of rejection can get in the way of interpreting the limerent object's body language and lead to inaction and wasted opportunities. Body signals may be emitted that confuse and interfere with attaining the limerent object.



A condition of sustained alertness, a heightening of awareness and an enormous fund of energy to deploy in pursuit of the limerent aim is developed. The sensation of limerence is felt in the midpoint of the chest, bottom of the throat, guts, or in some cases in the abdominal region.[3] This can be interpreted as ecstasy at times of mutuality, but its presence is most noticeable during despair at times of rejection.

[edit] Fainting



Syncope, or "fainting", very rarely happens, but can take place when the person is deeply in love with the limerent object[citation needed], physically, and personality-wise, and is usually only for small periods, 1–5 seconds. It is a sign of true obsession for the limerent object, reaching the peak of limerence (very rarely happens)[citation needed] and is often accompanied by non-stop thinking of the limerent object for long periods of time.

[edit] Game-playing



[citation needed]



No matter how intensely reciprocation is desired it cannot simply be requested. To ask is to risk premature self-disclosure. The interplay is delicate, with the reactions of each person inextricably bound to the behavior of the other - or at least so in the mind of the limerent.



Progression toward ecstatic mutuality may not involve externally created difficulties but feinting and parrying, minor deceptions, and falsehoods. The uncertainty required by the limerent reaction may often be merely a matter of perception. Despite ideals and philosophy, a process begins that bears unquestionable similarity to a game. The prize is not trifling: reciprocation induces euphoria.



Whether it will be won, whether it will be shared, and what the final outcome may be depends on the effectiveness of actions and those of the limerent object; indeed on skill.



Fears lead to proceeding with a caution that will hopefully protect from disaster. Reason to hope combined with reason to doubt keeps passion at fever pitch and too-ready limerent availability cools. Open declaration of true feelings may stop the process.



Limerent uncertainty as well as projection can be viewed as the consequence of the limerent inclination to hide feelings. Because one of the invariant characteristics of limerence is extreme emotional dependency on the limerent object’s behavior, the actual course of limerence must depend on the actions and reactions of both people.



Uncertainty increases limerence; increased limerence dictates altered action, which serves to increase or decrease limerence in the other according to the interpretation given. The interplay is delicate if the relationship hovers near mutuality; a subtle imbalance, constantly shifting, appears to maintain it.



In most cases each person knows who is more limerent [incorrect usage of word], but this is not always so. In most cases the limerents may believe a certain viewpoint, but the constant uncertainty means they are doubting or questioning themselves for most of the time regarding the other person. This can vary widely between different people.

[edit] Sexuality



Awareness of physical attraction plays a key role in the development of limerence, but is not enough to satisfy the limerent desire, and is almost never the main focus—instead, the limerent focuses on what could be defined as the "beneficial attributes".



A person, to become the limerent object, must be a potential sex partner. Limerence can be intensified after a sexual relationship has begun, and with more intense limerence there is greater desire for sexual contact. However, while sexual surrender once indicated the end of uncertainty in the limerent object, in modern times this is not necessarily the case.



Sexual fantasies are distinct from limerent ones. Limerent fantasy is rooted in reality and is intrusive rather than voluntary. Sexual fantasies are under more or less voluntary control and may also involve strangers, imaginary individuals, and situations that could not take place.



People can become aroused by the thought of sexual partners, acts, and situations that are not truly desired, whereas every detail of the limerent fantasy is passionately desired actually to take place. Limerence sometimes increases sexual interest in other partners when the limerent object is unreceptive or unavailable, such as when married people find sex with their spouses more pleasurable when they become limerent over someone else.

[edit] Causes



[citation needed]

[edit] Limerent reaction



The limerent reaction is a composite reaction; that is, it actually describes a unique series of reactions. These reactions occur only where misperceptions meet adversity in the context of a romance. Perhaps because of this unique specificity, limerent reactions can be uniquely quantified and predicted according to the schema described below.



Involvement increases if obstacles are externally imposed or if the limerent object’s feelings are doubted. Only if the limerent object were to be revealed as highly undesirable might limerence subside. The presence of some degree of doubt causes the intensity of the feelings to rise further. The stage is reached at which the reaction is virtually impossible to dislodge.



This adversity may be superficial or deep, internal or external, so that an individual may generate deep adversity where none exists. Also "romance," as it were, need not be present in any genuine way for a limerent reaction to proceed.



The course of limerence results in a more intrusive thinking pattern. This thinking pattern is an expectant and often joyous period with the initial focusing on the limerent object’s admirable qualities; crystallization. Then, under appropriate conditions of hope and uncertainty, the limerence intensifies further.



With evidence of reciprocation from the limerent object, a state of extreme pleasure, even euphoria, is enjoyed. Thoughts are mainly occupied with considering and reconsidering what is attractive in the limerent object, replaying whatever events may have thus far transpired with the limerent object, and appreciating personal qualities perceived as possibly having sparked interest in the limerent object.



At peak crystallization, almost all waking thoughts revolve around the limerent object. After this peak, the feelings eventually decline.



Fantasies are preferred to virtually any other activity with the exception of activities that are believed to help obtain the limerent object, and activities that involve actually being in the presence of the limerent object. The motivation to attain a "relationship" continues to intensify so long as a proper mix of hope and uncertainty exist.



Tennov estimates, based on both questionnaire and interview data, that the average limerent reaction duration, from the moment of initiation until a feeling of neutrality is reached, is approximately three years. The extremes may be as brief as a few weeks or several years. When limerence is brief, maximum intensity may not have been attained.



Limerence generally lasts about four months, but further studies on unrequited limerence have suggested longer durations.

[edit] Bond varieties

Main article: Human bonding



Once the limerent reaction has initiated, one of three varieties of bonds may form, defined over a set duration of time, in relation to the experience or non-experience of limerence. The constitution of these bonds may vary over the course of the relationship, in ways that may either increase or decrease the intensity of the limerence.



The basis and interesting characteristic of this delineation made by Tennov, is that based on her research and interviews with people, all human bonded relationships can be divided into three varieties being defined by the amount of limerence or non-limerence each partner contributes to the relationship.



With an affectional bond, neither partner is limerent. With a Limerent-Nonlimerent bond, one partner is limerent. In a Limerent-Limerent bond, both partners are limerent.



Affectional bonding characterize those affectionate sexual relationships where neither partner is limerent; couples tend to be in love, but do not report continuous and unwanted intrusive thinking, feeling intense need for exclusivity, or define their goals in terms of reciprocity. These types of bonded couples tend to emphasize compatibility of interests, mutual preferences in leisure activities, ability to work together, and in some cases a degree of relative contentment.



The bulk of relationships, however, according to Tennov, are those between a limerent person and a nonlimerent other, i.e. limerent-nonlimerent bonding. These bonds are characterized by unequal reciprocation.



Lastly, those relationship bonds in which there exists mutual reciprocation are defined as limerent-limerent bondings. Tennov argues since limerence itself is an "unstable state" that mutually limerent bonds would be expected to be short-lived; mixed relationships probably last longer than limerent-limerent relationships; and affectional bondings tend to be characterized as "old marrieds" whose interactions are typically both stable and mutually gratifying.

[edit] Impact



Tennov's research has been continued by Albert Wakin, who knew Tennov at the University of Bridgeport but didn't assist in her research, and Duyen Vo, a graduate student of Southern Connecticut State University.[4] They are refining the term to refer to the negative pathological aspects of Limerence. The term "Limerence" has been invoked in many popular media, including self-help books, popular magazines, and websites.



Still, according to a paper by Wakin and Vo, "In spite of the public’s exposure to limerence, the professional community, particularly clinical, is largely unaware of the concept." [5] In 2008, they presented their updated research to the American Association of Behavioral and Social Sciences. Wakin and Vo reported that more research must be gathered before the condition is suited for the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.

I found this today looking at the same site that I found my description of The Leo woman...... and holy shit this describes my tiger cub







Taurus The Bull



Taurus: The Child



The little Taurus is generally strong and healthy. A sturdy and passionate child, he or she will be staid, methodical, critical, practical, cautious and dependable. It will be necessary from an early age for any caregiver to develop the will of the Taurus youngster along the right lines. If not taught to be "masters" of themselves, Taurus children are apt to embark on lives of self-gratification upon reaching the age of maturity. In turn, this can result in much unhappiness. There is a tendency in the little Taurus to be somewhat cruel to animals and such behavior must be approached with care and tact. It is possible to reason with a Taurus child, but only in calm fashion. It is virtually impossible to attempt to drive this little one against his or her will, since this is often an exceedingly stubborn and high-tempered child.



When faced with opposition, it is not unusual for the little Taurus to become very furious, apt to fly into a rage very quickly. At such times, children governed by this Sign may be totally uncontrollable. Corporal punishment should be avoided with the Taurus child and he or she needs to be spoken to and made to realize the folly of his or her actions only after the anger and passion has been spent. Although the little Taurus will be headstrong, he or she will invariably be susceptible to kindness at all times and often, it will take nothing more than a simple hug to turn the tide. Fond of books and learning, the Taurus child should be provided the best of educational facilities and encouraged to take advantage of such opportunities. Proper education will become an important factor in the battles this child will inevitably encounter during his or her lifetime. When a Taurus child learns something, it is a lesson well-learned. During the school years, there will rarely be what could be described as a "meteoric" rise to the top of the class which may be exhibited by some other children of the Zodiac, but steady progress will usually be made and may prove to be more beneficial at the end of the day. New skills tend to be learned step-by-step with this child. Basically, this will be a carefree youngster with a happy disposition, but one who is apt to indulge to excess...particular with food and drink. Believing they are entitled to partake as much as they desire of whatever takes their fancy is an injurious trait of Taurus childen and should be firmly and consistently discouraged.



The Taurus personality is a fixed one and this child may not find it easy to mix freely with his or her peers. All too often, the little Taurus is perfectly content with solitude, thoroughly enjoying his or her own company. The unwillingness to share with others also creates an additional problem in this area for the young Taurus. Thus, he or she needs to be encouraged to make friends and engage in mutual play. Early exposure to other children is likely to be very beneficial, as will a reward system which encourages sharing and tolerance. Left to his or her own devices, the Taurus child can easily become the proverbial "I want" of the Zodiac and greed may prove to be extremely problematic. A true understanding of charity and the act of giving may be an appropriate lesson. The setting aside of some portion of this child's allowance for long-term savings and small donations to those in need would be good policies for this materialistic child to practice.



It should be noted that there is a danger...particularly among the boys who fall under the jurisdiction of Taurus...to be combative with playmates. Once entering into a fight, the Taurus child seldom knows when to stop. There may also be a distinct lack of moral courage with the little Taurus. If questioned too closely, he or she is apt to seek refuge in prevarication in order to escape punishment for any wrongdoing and the best course of action for any caregiver under such circumstances would be to lead through kindness, rather than the employment of force and rigid discipline.



Taurus children like consistency in their young lives and schedules are essential. This little one will be no taker of risks. He or she will thrive on having mealtimes, bedtime and playtime all at consistent hours during the day. Since this child has a fondness for clothes and food, a dress-up box or toy kitchen make for excellent activities and since he or she is often blessed with a lovely speaking and singing voice, the little Taurus may well enjoy drama, music classes or participation in a choir. In short, the necessity to entertain a little Taurus should never present a problem. Although he or she is frequently alone (usually by choice), this child is seldom lonely, being far too would up in some type of sport (basketball or football being the favored sporting activities for boys) or some form of artistic endeavor. Nonetheless, this youngster often possesses a lazy streak that he or she will need help in overcoming. Gentle encouragement is the key to changing such lethargy by turning the child's interest to something which will bring stimulation. One should be prepared to buy lots of toys for the little Taurus. This is usually a very materialistic child and possessions will make he or she "feel good." In fact, this child may become an avid collector who enjoy having "sets" of things...matchbox cars, model figures or lots of small dolls, for example. Being a a practical child who is fond of possessions, the little Taurus may respond well to completing chores for an allowance.



A reliable type of child, the little Taurus is able to wait when told to do so and can be depended upon to finish an important task or errand. However, in order to be at his or her best, a stable and secure background will be essential. Emotional security is paramount to this child and any form of change...particularly change over which he or she has no control...will frighten the Taurus youngster. Common sense is perhaps the greatest asset of Taurus children. Since the mind of this little one is logical and methodical, the resolution of any problem in a systematic and sensible way comes naturally. However, this will be a somewhat inflexible child who will often need reminding that even plans which have been carefully made may, on occasion, go awry and necessitate change. Perhaps the most obvious potential problem for children governed by this Sign is selfishness (which usually goes hand-in-hand with possessiveness). In addition, this characteristic is frequently accompanied by obsessive behavior and jealousy...particuarly when a parent pays attention to anyone else. This may result in the occasional show of vindictiveness which seems to materialize out of nowhere. Younger siblings often bear the brunt of such behavior and it is important that an older Taurus child be given an equal amount of attention as that paid to any younger brothers or sisters, especially newborns. On the more positive side, this negative trait also manifests itself in the form of a very affectionate child and one who genuinely enjoys being in the company of his or her family members.



Blessed with an abundance of natural charm, soft-spoken voice and basically gentle demeanour, the Taurus child can exhibit much sympathetic understanding toward those of whom he or she is fond. The baby Taurus is likely to smile at a very early age and usually appears most content. However, he or she may attempt to walk later than is usually expected and some Taurus babies are even lazy at trying to crawl. It should be noted that this is not due to a lack of any physical skill, but attributed more to an inherent liking for taking things easy. Encouragement should be given for the little Taurus to engage in physical exercise. With an inborn love of the outdoors, gardening might be a favored hobby, for example. Such an activity will also help the Taurus child to combat the tendency toward being overweight. Since this little one is far from a fussy eater and apt to over-indulge in food, such proclivity needs to be discouraged from an early age. If left unchecked, it may easily become an ingrained habit.



Given the right circumstances, the little Taurus will grow up to be an inspirational and artistic individual, provided he or she is given plenty of time during the early years to grasp a new fact or situation. Taurus children also tend to do better in a rural environment rather than an urban location. Since the Taurus child is a far-thinker who usually begins to plan a career at an early age, the maturity to adulthood is likely to bring ample displays of ambition, coupled with a good business sense and excellent business abilities. Surprisingly, the future of this child often turns out to be exactly what he or she had in mind from the very start. Being by nature faithful, romantic and loyal, there is every reason to believe that the Taurus youngster will develop into a person who can look forward to a rewarding career and a happy, stable family life. The girls governed by this Sign will also make for excellent home-makers.



Taurus: The Girl



The Taurus girl will probably be very fond of primping and posing before the mirror. A label-conscious young lady when it comes to clothes, she may well have a penchant for choker necklaces since Taurus rules the neck and throat. Any money she accumulates will doubtless be spent at the mall and this girl can be somewhat self-indulgent at times. Here, the appreciation for sweets and luxuries could easily result in over-indulgence and stomach aches. Still, this is a practical and stable young lady who is extremely patient and dependable when it relates to personal goals. Her sense of ambition will ensure that she is both hard-working and helpful to others. In terms of after school activities (aside from shopping expeditions), she might participate in golf or tennis. With a tendency to be rather stubborn, this girl certainly holds a fixed opinion and is generally determined to achieve any set goals. She has no problem with following through and compelting projects that others may have found too difficult or boring and as a result, will be a good student destined to "go places."



Taurus: The Boy



The Taurus boy is usually big, brawny and bull-headed. Almost certainly stubborn, he likes to do things his own way...but his own way can be rather nice. This lad can appear exceedingly opinionated but he is a patient soul who is both tolerant and dependable. He will pursue goals with perseverance and much determination, and his persistence will be evidence in school work. In the Taurus boy's opinion, good grades will get him into a good school and that brings him all the more closer to all the good things that money can buy...a shiny new car or expensive boat, for example. This youngster can be self-indulgent, preferring luxuries and the finer things of life, but he is willing to put in the hard work to earn these indulgences. Thus, the Taurus boy understands the value of networking and will always associate with the "right crowd." He also knows how to get ahead better than most his age, but will be subtle about it. In his leisure time, this young lad will probably enjoy outdoor activities such as hiking or anything that allows him to get close to the Earth. A neat, clean and parent-pleasing fellow, the Taurus boy is also essentially a "man's man," which tends to produce a winning combination.



For more in depth descriptions of the stages in the life of a Taurus child,

please see the link below:



Taurus: Childhood Stages



The Ruling Planet of Venus, associated with love, peace and beauty, usually makes the children of Taurus even-tempered, agreeable and full of joy. However, they can on occasion be stubborn, particularly when their desires or wishes are thwarted. Since Taurus is one of the three Earth Signs (together with Virgo and Capricorn), any child governed by this element needs to be taught while very young to overcome bouts of depression and feelings of inadequacy that he or she is bound to experience from time-to-time. Earth children should be encouraged to laugh things off during such circumstances, rather than taking everything to heart so seriously. Solitude is also very apparent with the children of Earth and they often need to be somewhat pushed in the direction of making friends. Far-thinkers, these little ones will begin planning their careers while still quite young. Surprisingly, such a career frequently turns out to be exactly what the child had planned. The gift of a Taurus child is the ability to calm, soothe and find comfort for others.



Qualities To Encourage:

Patience - Warm Heart - Common Sense - Determination



Qualities To Discourage:

Indulgence - Possessiveness - Stubborness - Greed



Suitable Future Careers:

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Taurus: Parent-Child Relationships

Aries Parent/Taurus Child: Natives of Aries tend to go too fast...natives of Taurus tend to be somewhat slow. Therefore, with some effort from both sides, this combination should be able to find a common ground. Since the Taurus child refuses to be rushed and is inherently stubborn, such behavior may leave the Aries parent fuming, screaming and engaged in shouting, all of which will be totally ignored by the little Taurus. In other words, there could be something of a battle of wills concerning this relationship, since both are very strong characters whose wills are exerted in very different ways. Nevertheless, the Aries parent will provide much enthusiasm and energy to the Taurus child and Aries' love of the arts could do much to encourage the development of any skills the little Taurus might possess in this field.



Taurus Parent/Taurus Child: With two headstrong individuals in one household, this combination is sure to create at least a few problems, particularly if there happens to be a conflict of interests. Nevertheless, this parent and child will share a mutual appreciation for the finer things of life. Good food, music and the general comforts of a nice home will go a long way toward ensuring a congenial domestic atmosphere. The love of luxury inherent in the Taurus child will be enhanced and encouraged within this relationship. Although the Taurus parent will need to guard against stagnation and/or becoming too set in his or her ways, the inevitable rebellious adolescent phase of a Taurus child will be sure to result in a healthy shake-up of any adult complacency.



Gemini Parent/Taurus Child: The flirty and flighty Gemini adult in this relationship, coupled with the accompanying hectic social schedule, may prove somewhat unsettling to any peace-loving Taurus child. The little Taurus craves comfort and security with few interruptions. However, any home run by a Gemini is sure to be filled with callers and weekend guests. Nonetheless, beneath his or her stubborn exterior, the little Taurus does find enjoyment in the company of others and takes great pleasure in the fine food and extragagant gifts often associated with the "social whirl" of his or her Gemini parent. It is beneficial to the young Taurus to learn how to mingle and natives of Gemini have perfected this social grace. In return, the Taurus child can provide the unsettled Gemini parent with a solid ground to return home to after all the guests have departed.



Cancer Parent/Taurus Child: In this relationship, the Taurus child will fully appreciate the ability of his or her Cancer parent to create a secure and safe home environment. It is natural for Cancer and Taurus to thrive in such circumstances. The child here will soak up all the love and attention heaped upon him or her by the Cancer parent. Such an upbringing is likely to result in a strong and solid character...a child who will work from an early age to build a similar type of domestic security later in life. This combination will invariably make for a lasting relationship between two kindred spirits...the Cancer parent and Taurus child will probably always remain close to each other.



Leo Parent/Taurus Child: The Leo parent will be a strong individual who can easily provide a confident role model for any Taurus offspring to emulate. Young Taurus will need such inspiration and be thus encouraged to work even longer and harder to achieve personal goals. Since Leo is somewhat well-known as the Leader of the Zodiac, such natives expect everyone to automatically follow their rules and regulations. This could lead to problems with the Taurus child, who will only take "so much" before the "heels go down and the horns go up." Eventually, the legendary temper of Taurus is sure to emerge and it will be necessary for the Leo parent to learn that the best way to reach this child is through encouragement and appreciation, given that any other approach is destined to meet with resistance. However, since Leo subjects are also well-known for their generous spirit, any offspring will be showered with all manner of gifts and little Taurus...being the most materialistic child of the Zodiac...will greatly appreciate the many luxuries provided by a Leo parent.



Virgo Parent/Taurus Child: Virgo and Taurus are two of the hardest workers to be found in the Zodiac. The Virgo parent will set an idustrious precedent for his or her Taurus child...one which little Taurus will want to emulate. Action which is careful, methodical and constant is important to Virgo and, being of a similar nature, any Taurus child will both respect and admire his or her busy parent. Since both are governed by the element of earth, there should be an abundance of domestic harmony. Virgo individuals are by nature proficient in arts and crafts, thus encouraging the creative talents of little Taurus and providing all the opportunities necessary for the child to develop artistic skills.



Libra Parent/Taurus Child: In this combination, both parent and child share the ruling planet of Venus. Thus, both are blessed with an appreciation of beauty and the powers of attraction. However, it will be necessary for the Libra parent to realize that little Taurus wants to attract possessions...beautiful items that he or she can value and cherish. Although the Libra parent can appreciate the Taurus love for such wonderful possessions, any admiration will necessarily be from a distance since the Taurus child is unlikley to share. Problems can arise in this relationship due to the Libra personality of being open to new ideas and the willingness to give and please others. Such an individual may become easily annoyed with a child who is something of a "plodder," who is very slow to change and often quite fixed in his or her opinions. Nevertheless, born with an inherently good sense of color and dress, the Taurus child will appeal to the adult Libra's love of beauty. It is not unusual for this parent/child relationship to culminate in a close bond of friendship once the Taurus child reaches maturity.



Scorpio Parent/Taurus Child: Both Scorpio and Taurus are fixed signs. The Scorpio parent likes a controlled environment and has set ways of doing things. Thus, the parent in this relationship will be far from pleased when the equally self-willed Taurus child refuses to do anything in a manner other than his or her own. These two signs are opposite each other in the Zodiac and truly have very little in common. The Scorpio parent will provide a home in which the Taurus child feels very safe...primarily because little Taurus values an unchanging way of life. Nonetheless, since both Scorpio and Taurus are by nature prepared to be sensitive to each other, this is often an area where the bond between parent and child can develop.



Sagittarius Parent/Taurus Child: In this relationship, the adventure-loving Sagittarius parent will attempt to introduce new ideas and experiences to his or her security-loving child. This sometimes results in feelings of disappointment when the little Taurus insists on clinging to his or her ragged Teddy Bear, displaying no interest whatsoever in the new (and no doubt expensive) one which the Sagittarius parent may just have purchased...a Teddy which can talk, sing and dance. Not only does the little Taurus hate change, he or she is also slow to accpet anything different into his or her life. Each new thing or event must be ventured into slowly with a Taurus child...rush a little Taurus and he or she will only further slow down. This can be very frustrating to the Sagittarius parent who hates the routine life that his or her child adheres to so persistently. Both parent and child have a lot to learn from each other in this relationship...if they can accept that each views life very differently. The Taurus child can provide stability for an otherwise restless Sagittarius parent. In return, the Sagittarius parent can teach the Taurus child to perceive life as more of an adventure.



Capricorn Parent/Taurus Child: Both being governed by the element of earth, this parent/child combination will be a compatible one. Both will be practical and sensible and share a love of material security. The Capricorn parent will set boundaries with which the Taurus child is happy to comply...it makes he or she feel more secure. In addition, the Capricorn parent is one upon whom the Taurus child knows he or she can depend. In turn, the Capricorn parent knows that when he or she sets a task for the Taurus child, that task will be done and done correctly. There will be much love and appreciation in this parent/child relationship and the Capricorn parent will work hard to provide the luxuries so loved by both the child and the adult.



Aquarius Parent/Taurus Child: This relationship is probably best desribed as: a freedom-loving and eccentric parent giving birth to a practical and routine-oriented child. The little Taurus can teach the Aquarius parent that it is rarely possible to live with a dream unless there are practical means of making that dream come true. The Taurus child will probably view the Aquarius parent as being unconventional in most ways, which can cause the little Taurus embarrassment in a multitude of situations. However, Aquarius individuals are, by and large, unique characters...something the Taurus child is likely to find difficult to accept. Since both of these Signs possess strong personalities, there is probably no way of avoiding an eventual confrontation between the Aquarius parent and the Taurus child.



Pisces Parent/Taurus Child: This parent/child combination will probably be quite good. The child here will be more practical than his or her parent, unable by nature to rely on dreams and feelings. With any Taurus individual, the "here and now" is what will be of most importance. However, a Pisces parent is an extremely loving character and will be able to provide the emotional security so necessary to the Taurus child's well-being. In return, the desire for material possessions and the sensible approach to life inherent in this child can help ground the dreamy Pisces parent and may be most beneficial in turning Pisces' dreams into realities. The little Taurus will also learn through this relationship that if anything is to get done, then he or she is probably going to have to take personal responsibility for its completion.

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