Irritates me when people post "that's just my two cents," or, "just my opinion." Is this apologetic statement supposed to excuse what they've just said? Never run into such rampant use of these disqualifiers on any other forum.
Own what you say or don't speak. Say what you will and end your opinion with a big, fat PERIOD, otherwise no one will take you seriously.
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I do it. If I say something controversial, usually. I guess I do it to avoid further conflict and the ever-dreaded drama.
eg. Once I said, in regards to a girl with several semi-nude shots on her profile, "you are nothing but holes to the people that pay attention to you. That's just my opinion." because she can't then mistake it as stating a fact and refute it with "no, this guy really loves me, and your just jealous of my poky ribs" and rana rana rana. Whereas you can't refute an opinion.
I don't try to excuse what I say in the same breath as saying it though, that's not my aim. I'm not afraid of owning up to my opinions. That would be stupid. Maybe I should rethink the use of the phrase then, if it's seen as a take-back to the statement.
Interesting.
I don't think the average person realizes that those IMO actually weaken their argument. Truth be told I don't care about most people's opinions unless they hold a degree or expertise in the subject field or I have a bond with them that allows me to give some sort of credence to what they are speaking about.
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meeper
06:51 Jan 30 2009
Finally, and yet we still have so far to go.