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For nearly 16 years now I have dealt with the utter bull shit that my husband's family does and says. His mother was ALWAYS nasty to me and then would lie if I told my husband. She ganged up on me when my husband and I were first engaged to be married and told me that I had no business being in his life and to up the engagement ring. I laughed in her face, told her to fuck off and then told my husband. When confronted, she lied to him and told him that I was a bitch and that I was lying.

His father invaded MY personal privacy and read a diary that I had. Like I said, his mother was a real nasty and cruel woman, so imagine what the diary was about. I also was forced countless times to get on my knees and grovel and kiss feet and apologize to both in-laws because they had it in their heads that I was wrong and they were right.

And now I feel as if my husband is doing that to me. I can't do or say anything without him accusing me of something. Like today, for instance:

His dad called him to ask him about a piece of paper that was given to my husband. My said " Let me get the paper." The paper was no where to be seen or even found. My husband told me it was in a plastic grocery bag. I said, " Why was it in a plastic bag?! Chances are it got thrown out! It should have been in the suitcase!" He proceeded to accuse me of throwing out the bag. I NEVER threw out a bag let alone see any paper in a bag.

So what does he do? He calls his dad and says that paper can't be found because I had thrown out the plastic bag. I then got accused by his dad. I was so angry I told them all to fuck off.

A half hour later, his dad calls and LOW AND BEHOLD, my husband was told the piece of paper was downstairs on a table. The whole intent was to blame me know matter what.

Needless to say, his dad is back on my list of blaming ass holes. As for my husband? He's sleeping on the couch tonight.

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Lav
20:00 May 28 2017

This is emotional abuse, and I would make a suggestion that you speak to your husband about his family and get it all out in the open. If he's unwilling to put you first and begin to understand things from your perspective, it's all just going to get worse. Particularly if he's absorbed this idea that you are to be treated in that fashion, it will get worse if not addressed.

Look into choosing a family counselor if you need someone else on your side, because obviously your husband already has his folks in his corner. In my experience, this just gets worse and worse if you don't throw a wrench in it at some point.

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Ariadne
23:29 Jun 03 2017

I didn't realize until just now that I have some spelling errors. Oh well. I type too fast I guess. Anyway, I did confront him about it and he said that I clearly just don't like his family. This has led to us now being separated. I can no longer deal.

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I finally came back today. Here is an update on why I was gone for so long.

I've been sick. Badly. In and out of doctor appointments due to severe migraines that led to constant nausea and vomiting. Doctor's thought it was mini-seizures, but that has been completely ruled out.

I am on track with my migraine meds that now work at the onset of a severe migraine.

Last week I got badly sick with the flu and was in bed for 4 days. I am a firm believer of vaccines, but the flu vaccine this year did NOT work.

Before all of that happened though, I have been studying intently on my nursing. Next year I go for N-CLEX which, after I pass, will make me an official registered nurse.

I am also a weather geek, and so I have also been studying to be a storm spotter and storm chaser.

It's just been really busy and hectic lately, but I will make it a point to come here every so often to update.

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vVvLouisvVv
00:02 May 22 2017

welcome back

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