So I was out with Barry in the car, much as we have enjoyed weekends passed. The weather had been biting cold and, I’d relished the cars heater, as we had listened to Manchester Rock XS and sounds that meant something to us, that the music of today could never reach… We had gone to the docks, to check onna trip down the canal, then onto Ellesmere Port Market, to check out a thing or three and, on the way there I’d got pining for chocolate, as some can and I rarely do. And, we’d gone round the stalls, finding the odd thing wanted and a few frames that were needed, then begun our winding way home, so I’d be back in time to cook the evening meal. It was as we had begun to traverse, that Barry had pulled a blinder and, two Double Deckers from a bag in his quite capacious pocket. And, as we travelled home, listened to rock music of the seventies, we bit into and chewed a taste of the time, that was sweeter with just a touch more rhyme… and, as I chewed the chocolate bar in Barry’s car, my mind had slewed back in time, to the year nineteen seventy-two and the teevee show with a sweet name… just the same, The Double Deckers.
I know that in his own inimitable way, my Father cares. But, I get cabin-fever within hours, if I’m told I can’t go out. And, the weather on the first January 2015 was not your best. Now granted, other parts of the country will have got it worse tha we do on the Wirral, they always do. That said, it was windy going on stormy with the distinct possibility of rain and Dad was protesting about my intent to go to the Mere, simply because of the weather. Now, at one o’clock the next morning it sounded pretty stormy outside my window, but earlier in the day a few spots of rain were not going to stop me and, as it happens, they had hardly touched me.
When we were younger, I recall being in my bathing suit, playing with my brother in the incoming tide that ebbed in and out, layer after layer, drifting toward toes as we walked. He had dark hair and dark skin, whilst I was quite the reverse.
We’d played and laughed, as our parents walked behind us, holding hands, with Dad’s trouser legs rolled up, as he paddled. And that had been it.
Maybe he had swum with us at Abersoch, there on the Warren beach. I don’t recall.
What I do recall is either my brother or myself running over to my parents, sitting on their deckchairs, by the windbreaker, on a sunny day, beneath an eternally blue-sky.
“Come in Daddy,” one of us would yell, “the waters lovely and warm.”
And, he’d reply the reply I always associate with Dad and those wonderful holidays, “I would, but the waters too wet.”
Well, this Friday the 2nd January 2015, after shopping at the Azda, on the quietest day I’ve ever known there, we’d put the groceries away and the heating had been on a awhile and, as he sipped his tea, I’d said, “I figure the waters ready for your bath.”
And dryly he lamented from the sofa, “Well, I’m not ready for it yet.”
I had returned from the The Nationwide in the village, where I had learnt the dole has now managed to get access to my account right, if not the amount. But hey, life’s made of little achievement. Once home I had responded to Barry’s phonecall, “Okay to call round for awhile?” He had asked, knowing it was pretty near to when I usually cook the tea. “Of course,” I’d answered, as I’d made my coffee. Well, just a short while later he was on my doorstep, “I don’t need a drink, thanks.”
He hadn’t sounded too serious, as he spoke; but once in my room he’d asked me to turn down the volume, as I’d decided to show him the Riddick cartoon, on the RM Seven machine, Karl got working for me. “Sure,” I’d answered, doing as requested.
Then he’d begun talking, telling me that he has been diagnosed with cancer of the pancreas. The whole conversation had been so calm and collected. It was on the Saturday we had a travelling day, much as we had months ago…leaving no plan for the next day, as we may have done, months ago…
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You write so well my friend. I love the way you have allowed us to see into the lives of you, your family and your friend. I am so sorry that he has cancer. It is such a horrible, cold uncaring thing....and i say thing because that is what it is. A nightmarish thing that comes to rob us of our family and dearest friends in a most tragic way. I lost my father because of cancer 2 years ago. My deepest sympathy goes out to your friend, his family and to you my dear friend. I truly hope that your friend is able to beat this , recuperate and be able to continue to have many more traveling days with you.
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So in other words these people have no clue where your money went. I hope they have done something about this by now and have issued you a new check.
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Chonrie
03:25 Jan 29 2015
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