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Me and my Man19:49 May 31 2009
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Upcoming this October 28th, 2009 I will be married for 10 years to the amazing and delightfully territorial man of my dreams. You might know him on here as ViolentVance. Yeah, he's the guy with the picture of him self holding the AK-47.
You're thinking "Okay, that guy........"
Yes, him! We've been together for almost 12 years and married for 10 of them. As many couples we've had our ups and downs however, we've managed worked through them all thus far.
We have 3 beautiful and crazy children together. I don't like to share their names except for with people I know personally. The most information I share about them is that they are 10, 8, and 4.....and if you use the first letter of each of their names in order by age, it spells B.A.D. So no matter what, they are always my bad kids, and I adore them!
But as you can tell by the title of this entry, it's not about my whole family, but limited to things about myself and my husband, and our relationship.
We started as boyfriend and girlfriend when I was 16 and he was almost 18. I was still in high school and trying to figure out what direction to take in my life and he was out in the world...living like a college kids but not going to college. Get the picture?
He was my first real boyfriend, the first boy I ever kissed, and first for several other things of that nature. *smiles* But that wasn't until a while into everything. We started out with people already angered that thought we shouldn't even be together. One of them being my mother.
But things have always managed to work out with a crazy twist. Like when my mother kicked me out of the house at age 17, during the summer before my senior year of high school that I was supposed to graduate early from.
I was hardly ever getting to see my boyfriend and it was starting to take it's toll on our relationship. Then one day after I went to visit him, I returned home to an angry mother and trouble starting step father. After she kicked me out, I had only my love to turn to and a few random friends.
And we've lived together ever since. Sure, we've been separated twice and had arguments of all ranges. The longest separation lasted less than 9 months, and we talked that entire time.
I'm going to try to wrap this up now, because I don't think it's necessary to give an account of the entire 12 years, play by play. But sometimes when you are so truly and deeply in love with someone...sometimes you don't know why and sometimes you think you have it all figured out. That one person that you give your heart completely to is also the only one that can crush it and make it all better again....make you hate the world and brighten your day again.
It's kind of like the story of the beauty and the beast...
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AlwaysViolet
07:20 Jun 01 2009