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06:37 Jan 18 2019
Times Read: 399


Pets: The Secret Cure for Loneliness and Depression......
BY bp Magazine..

Our furry friends are there for us in so many ways; here are just a few:


Pets are sensitive to our emotions
Dogs in particular know when we are depressed and innately try to help useach in their own way. Some will never leave our side; others will jump in our lap for some comforting; and there are those that seemingly ham it up to make us smile. Researchers have found that if their owners are crying, dogs will exhibit more submissive behavior.



Pets make us responsible
Having responsibility promotes good mental health, according to depression research. Psychologists explain that our self-esteem is built by taking ownership of a task, the same way we take responsibility for caring for our animals. “We reinforce to ourselves that we are capable of caring for another creature as well as ourselves when we succeed at providing adequately for our pets.”




Pets provide structure
When depression sets in it’s very easy to forget any schedule and it can be extremely difficult to even get out of bed. However, when you know you need to at least get up every single morning and feed your pet, and take him outside to go to the washroom, that gives a little structure to the day. Routine is a good thing!



Pets encourage socialization
You may need an excuse to get outside and talk to people. That’s where dogs come in handy. Go to any public place that allows dogs and you’re guaranteed to run into other dog lovers who will instantly strike up a conversation. If you can’t find a suitable place, then head to a pet store or a dog park. Whether it’s talking to another dog owner at the park or talking about your parrot in your backyard, being an animal parent makes socializing that much easier.


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06:55 Jan 17 2019
Times Read: 411


"In 2013 Leslie Irvine, a Sociologist at the University of Colorado interviewed “pet guardians” experiencing homelessness in Boulder Colorado.  She found that many of those she interviewed credited their animal with changing or saving their life.  One woman stated her dog helped her quit heroin, leave an abusive relationship, and improve her HIV status.  Another man said his dog has helped him combat isolation and depression by making him get out, walk and socialize with other people.  Others interviewed believed their animals had saved them from attempting suicide, protected them from danger, and kept them healthy and happy.

I think it makes logical sense that pet ownership would reduce feelings of loneliness and isolation. Pets fulfill emotional needs like the need for love, security, companionship, and comfort.  Taking care of a pet also fulfills the need to nurture and take care of a other living thing and can give people a sense of purpose.

I’m sure all you pet owners and animal lovers are thinking, “Tell me something I don’t know.” Whether you were aware of the healing power of animals or you just realized they made you feel good, I now encourage you to include your pet in your list of strengths when it comes to coping and healing from grief.  

For all you animal skeptics, I get you.  I know your thinking, “animal healing is not for me,” and there’s a good chance you’re right.  I’m not suggesting you run out and adopt a pet tomorrow, I’m simply asking you to open your mind to the possibilities because you never know when the opportunity to pet a puppy might present itself."

https://whatsyourgrief.com/healing-power-of-animals/


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06:24 Jan 16 2019
Times Read: 436


How Pets Help Manage Depression

By Kara Mayer Robinson

Avigayil Brown has been an animal lover her whole life. "I grew up having a lot of pets: dogs, cats, bunnies, fish, birds, and a horse," says Brown, who's 24 and lives in Brooklyn, NY.
She has dealt with depression since she was 12, but it wasn't until she faced a very tough round of symptoms that she began to understand how pets helped her feel well.
When Brown moved into her own apartment, she was depressed and had trouble sleeping. After she adopted two rescue kittens, she started sleeping better and feeling better, too.

When I was lying in my bed, my cats would come and snuggle with me. If I got out of bed just to go to the bathroom, my cats followed me. It was very calming," she says.
Brown isn't alone. In a recent survey by the Human-Animal Bond Research Institute, 74% of pet owners said having a pet improved their mental health.

Studies back this up and show that activities with animals help with symptoms of depression

What Pets Can Offer if You're Depressed

Comfort, companionship, and love. If depression makes you feel lonely, pets can break the cycle.
"A pet can remind you that you're not alone," says Desiree Wiercyski, a life coach in Fort Wayne, IN. "Pets offer unconditional love, which can be extraordinarily soothing when feeling isolated."
Wiercyski, who also lives with depression, says her dog helps her shake off feelings of worthlessness. "My pup has been right beside me offering comfort and love, reminding me that things aren't so bad."
Brown believes there's something special about the love and attention her pets give her. "Animals are very connected in ways that people aren't," she says.

Clinical psychologist Perpetua Neo, PhD, agrees. "Animals pick up on when their owners are distressed," she says. When they sense you're not feeling well, they offer comfort.
A regular schedule. Knowing you have to feed, walk, or care for your pet may give you a sense of purpose and routine.
"Even when I don't feel like getting out of bed or leaving the house, I know they're depending on me," says 29-year-old Courtney Sparkman, who lives in Tulsa, OK, and has two miniature poodles. "It helps me make it through the day."

A sense of calm. Pets have a relaxing effect. Petting or stroking an animal can improve your mood. "Touch helps increase oxytocin levels and reduces cortisol, the infamous stress-related hormone," Wiercyski says. Even the sound of a cat purring can be soothing.
Studies with therapy dogs suggest even brief interactions ease anxiety and fear, says Sandra Barker, a professor of psychiatry and director of the Center for Human-Animal Interaction at Virginia Commonwealth University. In a recent survey, people with severe depression felt more relaxed, less lonely, and had less pain after short visits with a therapy dog.

Physical activity. Pet owners tend to get more exercise than people without pets. If you have a dog, for example, you're more likely to go out for walks. Exercise is good for managing depression.
Wiercyski says depression often keeps her indoors. But knowing her dog needs to go out gets her out the door. "Even just those couple minutes outside raises my mood and makes me feel like I'm capable of something productive," she says.

Social time. Depression might make you want to avoid other people, but pets can open up your world.
Studies suggest pets help you get to know people, spark friendships, and build your support network.
"Dogs and babies are the things that connect strangers together. When you walk your dog, you might feel inclined to speak to complete strangers," Neo says. That's a good thing. "Social connection is an antidote to depression."


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06:25 Jan 15 2019
Times Read: 495


A Veteran With PTSD Recalls the Night He Met the Cat That Saved Him From Taking His Own Life

by Lori Dorn...

While stationed in Fort Riley, Kansas after suffering a traumatic brain injury in Iraq, soldier Josh Marino fell into a deep pit of anxiety caused by posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). On the evening he decided to take his own life, he sat outside the barracks to smoke a final cigarette and heard a kitten meowing in the bushes. Once the black and white kitten revealed himself, Marino decided that their was so much more to life than what he was feeling.

…He just walked up and started rubbing up against my leg, letting me pet him. I broke down crying, burst into tears. Maybe he knew that there was something I couldn’t quite handle. I stopped thinking about all my problems and I started to think about all his problems what I could do to help him …Even before he was my cat, before he even knew me that well, Scout saved my life. He put me on a different path. He gave me the confidence to try to come back from all the adversity that I was feeling.


The cat disappeared for a bit, but when Marino and new his girlfriend were out shopping, they stopped by the Fort Riley Stray Animal Shelter during an adoption fair and the little black cat reached his paw out of the cage to let Marino know he was there. Marino took the cat home and named him Scout.


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06:57 Jan 14 2019
Times Read: 663


A real Tabby comes in all colors, shapes and sizes. They don't fat shame, go against someone sexual orientation and cause drama. They love instead of hate. If there is hate they defend it with love.


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March
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21:35 Jan 14 2019

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03:16 Jan 15 2019

bravo sweet lady





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06:18 Jan 15 2019

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