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but look at the friends you gained lately. I rather have one or two very close friends then ones who fakely be friends with. If you have a few close friendships that you become a rock for each other, that you can talk to no matter the subject matter, i have seen, outweighs unlimited number of people who pretend to be your friend, just like the one who unfriended you on fb.



I am sad that this person waited till now to do this thou.

Yep. Don't let it spoil your holiday. Turn the other cheek.

yes there is a woman with a 52 inch bust....you. who says all us are the same size?

Thanks for your kind words Robin. The thing is I saw a photo of a MTF trans girl who began her transition as a teen and she looks 100% female. I of course got jealous and the dysphoria set in. I often have a lot of regret that I didnt transition much younger, say in my late teens to early 20's before everything became set in stone.

This might be a bad example..... but i hope it goes to you in good thoughts that its never too late for anything.



Caitlyn Jenner aka bruce Jenner. He waited till late in his life to change from male to female.



to each they travel a road different then anyone else. no two road are alike. But the point is and always will be, making you happy on who you are inside. everyone else be damned.

ok, I know its hard, life is hard. No matter what you or I do.

I am not the prettiest thing on two legs. However, when some one calls me ugly..... its there problem. not mine. Its what matters in your heart that counts. Its how you, yourself react to those round you that you call friends. Like ... BeautifulEnlightenment, and others.



If the people who put you down, calling you names..... just ignor it, and move on. If they are also doing this kind of things online...... no matter the site....... there is ussually block buttons of one form or another to deal with that.



Don't let nut cases make you change your plans of your life. If you want to go out en-femme today. do it. The way i think, those who are calling you names, are just jealous that your doing what makes you happy. And they don't know how to do that yet.



Hands you a rose. You are a beautyfull soul. and you have people rooting for you.

I know its hard to ignore bad things. We've all heard "sticks and stones". Let's go deeper. Eleanor Roosevelt said "Only you can give people the power to hurt your feelings".



Simply put, why value their opinion? Associate yourself with positive people as much as possible and do your best to shield yourself from the haters and naysayers.

Alright lets start with the abnormal thing here...I am the last person anyone would ever see commenting on this but here we go. One fuck what people say or think....the only one who can affect you are the ones who you let affect you. Two remember the Disney movie The hunchback of Notre Dame.....the message in that movie was.....The dis-formed man was the purest of heart and the most beauty of all....he saw the beauty within not the outer. He was kind...gentle...and he saw the monster his master was.....but he did not change or believe he was lowest thing in Paris like his master beat in his head. I know this is probably not a good reference but its the only one that fits.....where beauty is not the outside. Some of the ugliest people on earth hold the best looks on the outside.....some of the best people on earth dont get noticed for they have no outer beauty.....people focus so much on image instead of what counts....Lets take me for example.....no one knows I run several charities a year.....for children...vets....community members who cant pay bills....I help the homeless and soup kitchens....I bake for churches....I would give you the shirt off my back if you needed it....very few people see the beauty inside me they focus on the image that has been painted through anger and jealousy of others but that does not make me stop doing what I do or love. I am me and will always be me....FUCK THE REST OF THE WORLD. Be true to yourself......and stick those who love and support you....block out the negative.....block out the haters.....stay true to you.

Ok i probably should look my own shit but i got irritated by your journal enter so i MUST say few things and then you can get allllll angry at me.

So first of all i HATE absolutely hate when people wanna make other people to feel sorry for them. Will you feel better if i say " oh honey poor you,oh i am so sorry because you give shit what other motherfuckers think about you " Hell no you won't feel better. Is not problem in other people who bulling you .My dear YOU are the main problem because you making problems without no problems. Your life will change when you STOP to give fuck what others no important people think about you.And if you wanna to be happy change your toxic thoughts and think little positively about your self. No person in this world is ugly! You are perfect in way you are!So stop feeling sorry for yourself and talk shit!

You feel like woman? So be the woman! No one can stop you if you don't let them!Don't bother with negative people and love your self! Every morning when you woke up go in front fucking mirror and say "this day is beautiful and i am beautiful " don't let anyone to ruin your day or life! That I'm closer i would come and yell at you dammit! Because you are sooooo depressed and you NEED wake up call!life is short to waste on stupid things! And remember how you treat yourself in that way people will treat you!Never forget that!

And if something going wrong in your life nothing will get better if you sitting there and crying! Move your ass and do something! That's how life works!

And btw ...i don't think that you are ugly.

That's it !I told what i wanted. You can be mad at me or take this like good advice and start to love and respect yourself.

Have nice night /day!

I totally failed the math and the English. I did not retake the math and enrolled in the remedial math class. I retook the English by itself and did fine... YOU need to do the same. TRUST ME there are people that want to help you at school. I did it and so can you! VR is not going to help you other than venting. You can do it, I know you can!!!!!

Here is the thing. I aced the general math admissions test and I know I did reasonably well on the reading comprehension test. The algebra? If I got anything right it was by pure luck. I still have to pass the writing test and I am afraid of that one. Writing has NEVER been my strong suit. I had to take remedial writing classes just so I could pass the HSPT, one of the earliest standardized tests back in the day. The thing is, none of these things have anything to do with the major I am pursuing which is network systems administrator. I am sure I will never need algebra to re-set someone's password, to replace a busted computer terminal or to check faulty connections between terminals and the file server. While I need reading comprehension to read a textbook, I am sure the only writing I will do in the real world is to fill in a bad order ticket or to fill out a shipping document to send broken computers out to be fixed.

Oh college pre test. They are the devil. Hello my name is Sean and I suck at math. Always have. When I took the math test I flunked them big time. Algebra and my mind do not get along at all. Well I said to myself at least I tried college. Then I stopped. I said hold up....I want this. I really want this. So I went to the college and I said I need help here people and lo and behold they told me about this math lab open to students. Darling let me tell you I was at that Math Lab 24/7 to learn basic Algebra and also I found students willing to help me for free to tutor me. Look, You CAN do this. You already did the hardest thing you will ever do in your life if I am not mistaken and that was when you came out. You survived that and even found out you have people who love you. My brain is damaged from an accident I had when I was 6 years old. I mean I have brain damage. I had to REALLY work harder then any other student to learn this stupid math that I would never really use in my career. But I did it. YOU CAN TOO! YOU ARE NOT STUPID. You are an extremely gifted person. Just some of us are better at English them Math. Do not quit. ASK FOR HELP. Find the Math Lab at that school. Reach out and ask for help. Help IS there. I swear if you give up on this... well you CAN'T! You are not alone. you are not the only one gone though this and made it and YOU will pass these test.... you just have to get some help so take your pretty ass to that school and met with the counselor and ask for help with the math part. Tell them you do not know how but you want to know. You want to learn. You got this!!!!!



I was at the math lab 24/7 NO kidding. I had to work harder then any other student there. You are smarter then I am and I did it so can you. I know have a double Major , two BS's. TWO!!!! Next year I go back for my Masters. Math scared me too because it made me feel stupid... but I was not stupid, I just did not know how to do it. Do not give up, please. A lot of us been right where you are and we just had to apply harder then some... and we, I am here, to help you though this, as many others here on VR have said they are here for you too.



YOU CAN DO THIS!

Hey sweetie... I waited til about midnight for you to come on... I did some looking into it that night... Get up with me. We will call the Bursar's office and go from there. I think the advice up above from Poison is good advice. You're not stupid and you're never going to pass with that attitude. You are my best friend. There... I said it, and I don't give a fuck WHO's ass it chaps. I know you better than anyone here and I know what you NEED versus what you want. You need to know that you are one of the most INTELLIGENT people I have EVER met. You need to know that you are 100% CAPABLE of passing this math test. You have the basic knowledge needed to be good at math. Just because you never learned how to do something in the first place does NOT mean you can't do it. It just means you need to learn it so you CAN complete the material. There is a difference between stupidity and ignorance. You are NOT stupid. You're smart and you CAN DO THIS. That's the one thing EVERYONE here is 100% right about. You're definitely smart enough. Do you girl!!! I'm excited for you because I know you're going to pass this your next go around, if you didn't pass it THIS time. Was the algebra the only part you had trouble with? I know there's other arithmetic on there as well. If you need help with any English, let me know. That's what my degree is in and I graduated Cumlaude. :)

Thanks BE and thanks Dakotah!

I understand the feeling of failure, with my gf moving and no longer having my baby girl everyday I cry a lot. I feel Ive failed as a boyfriend which means also Ive let my daughter down and am a failure to her. I have no money, no car, on disability and its been a struggle to not slip back to old destructive habits. You have friends here that care about you, I KNOW this for a fact. ANd the good side to your problem is that you can do as the other person said, take a math/algebra class first..after that you can go on with your goal. Stay strong, and stay safe.

Thanks Bats!

Check it out girlfriend... I am really super smart and really good at math. I got your back. ;)

its not failing to not know, just means there is an extra added step youre gonna have to do first..take a math class somewhere to help teach the math, then push forward to what you want....I am very poor too, it doesnt make us bad people or failures. Just means we dont have as much things at others..stay strong!!

maths was my best subject in high school....you need help?....just message me



listen to what Bats and Mary are saying

I started college at 45 after being out of high school for over 30 years and had never had an algebra class in high school (It wasn't required back in the day) I did terrible on the entry exam and I started with a remedial math class to learn and relearn all of the basics. You can do it!!!

You know that you have my support always. :)

No one should be harassed for things out of their control. You are beautiful and you are loved, no matter what some might say. For every 1 person like that, you have 10 more beside you to prove them wrong. Stay strong, love.

I would like to put it in my profile my friend and dont forget you have always my support aswel.hugs

You can do it. :)

Thanks!

Keep your chin up and don't show fear. Thinking it'll get worse will turn it into a self fulfilling prophecy. You've got this. If your papa loves you, he'll be okay with whatever makes you happy. :)

Thank you! I will try to keep positive thoughts

And turns out everything went well, right? I'm happy for you sweetie. :)