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And you think I deprive myself of sleep because you don't have those qualities? Love talking to you too Hun.

What's that like? It's been so long...*sighs and kicks a can in the corner and walks off*

lol look out now!!

No one from VR then :-P

Lol I like that Bloodlife!

just relax and take it one day at a time sweetie , I understand how you feel , I have been though this myself , give him a chance he isn't Dylan if he was you would have never met him , meeting you and doing a face to face is a good point .I,m here if you want to talk to a expert on this stuff.

Thanks Caro :)

oh, now why didn't it leave a reply?



i said to stay in the moment, take each day one by one, and by doing that, you'll build trust and learn to trust again.

Thats what I'm doing hun, all I can do really . Thankies :)

I know where you are coming from... It will be hard, but as time progresses trust shall bloom. Now cross my hand with silver for gazing into my cystral ball for you!

Will a thimble do? :P

The trust thing is really hard, I have those issues from a few previous relationships and it does make it hard when you enter into a new relationship, you want to trust that person whole heartily and even though they don't give you any reason not to trust them things creep into your mind, I think you can tell though, I feel completely different with this person :)

Stay Golden and it will be all fine *hugs*

Well from my own personal experience, when me and my ex split up and he moved back to Scotland I think it really helped the out of sight out of mind thing, I wasn't missing him, where as with the person I'm now with when we haven't seen each other for a week its wonderful when we do see each other again, I think it depends on your feelings for the person if your relating it to a person, if that makes any sense?!! lol :)

Yes it does *smiles*

Since I've moved to where I am now three weeks ago, I've gotten a little serious with two men. With one, I sort of forget about him if he's not around. With the second, I'm always missing him when he's not here. My room feels empty, my bed feels too big.



She's right. It depends on how you feel about the person.

I still miss you dearly. It'll be either cold and rainy or frigidly cold. So I'll make sure I'm nice and cuddly for you.

Hmm, i would love to see some photos of you two together!

Yes I also think that absence does makes the heart grow fonder.

that prayer doesn't get answered around here lol ^.^

very cool, im happy for you two....now if we could just hook up ole moonies lol

Awwwww there is those warm fuzzies again (:

I am happy for you (:

i'm very happy for you both. :)

:)

Nice.

You know, I miss you something fierce too. It was a wonderful time we had. I can't wait to host you again, but I do hope I'll be able to come up there soon.

*Wipes a tear away and sniffs*

How lovely, sounds like a fairytale! :)

: )

True happiness is found in many ways...even when we are not looking in those places.

What DarkWolfman said.

lol, hope you got lots of lubricant cause sounds like to me your gonna be really sore by the time you come home.

Who needs lube if they are doing their job right? LOL

lol...that is very true...glad you're enjoing yourself XD

Ooh get you!!! ;)

Have fun lol

RAWR!!! is all i'm saying on this matter ~giggles~

Glad you're having fun hun. Sorry about the comment last night.

:) Good for you, well..both of you.

Whoo hoo! You go, girl!

I'm the only guy so far to comment but....damn you get you some.

Go Pandora Its your Bday , wooot wooot.

Woop the three years is over, doing a happy dance now! Wait does this mean I can't flirt with u anymore :(

Lol, well done you!

Have a real nice time :)

Enjoy!!!

hon, if he doesn't like you he,s just Blind and stupid.. Relax.

Lolz



YOU'RE driving to see someone?



Not the other way around?



Lolwuuuuuut

Relax and try to have a great time.

take some deep breaths and enjoy your trip

he is probally filling his pamper's he is so nervous about meeting you too ill bet lol...have fun ^.^

well looks like it's all ok. : )

Have a blast Pandora you deserve it .

I plan on it, thanks hun :)

Have fun....lots of it!!!

That sounds like some much needed and deserved fun

Have a blast (:

have a fun and safe trip :)

*Hugs*



Good luck sweety,

I always want you to be happy.

Have fun! :)

Go for it hunny! All the wY, or no way! X

Good luck and I hope you both get on great!

YEAH... I KNOW.

lol try again.....

Joins SCREAMS! Don't know why we are screaming but sounded like fun. :-)

Yeah I like the idea of a scream.....



SCREAMS!!

It hurts us to the core when people are deceitful. They have no business doing what they do, but they do it any way. It's very much like rape. It cannot be forgotten or washed away. You are a beautiful woman and have many beautiful qualities and some day there will be someone who will be blessed enough and worthy to have you as their woman. /mush

That means a lot to me Christine, thank you. And you were one of those people that was there for me when I fell apart and I will never forget that, I will be eternally grateful and cherish our friendship.

Amen, sister!

This made me go back in time to ponder on my own fucked up love-life.

Like you, I have learned from the experience.

Thats all we can do...

So glad to see you moving on...since I'm leaving Town shortly...good luck monday!

Oh and btw...my own love life has seen this Result one too many times also. It still mystifies me to this day why my ex was as he was to me, then amazingly, shortly after we split up (or rather, I should say, I developed the courage to leave him finally) he married somebody else and is still married to this day.



I wonder if he's abusing her as he abused me......



It truly confounds me.



I thank my stars that I live in another Town...if I ever see him again, I'm gonna knock his ass out, simply put.

Hon, if your talking about who I think you are . oh please just let him open his mouth to you and hell will bust wide open and I,ll be holding the pitchfork , and Ob said yeah please , please Show his stupid face cause he,s still waiting for his ass.

I wish he would just so I could see it lol

Que?

No hablo Espanol heh :)

I think it’s very difficult to truly know a person; people are so full of surprises!

You know, I've felt that way sometimes looking into the mirror.

Yeah hun,

You like to think you know.. but you dont.

I have found that to be quite annoying. Like when you think you know someone and then they show their true colors and they really are not who you thought they were to begin with. It isn't even them changing in any way- it's just they acted a certain way to show off a certain persona then BAM who they really are comes out.



I had to move on from close friendships after I had my son. A lot of people started to show their true colors and ended up being people I didn't want or need in my life.

WHATEVER!

dont let your unfounded fears take this away from you.You have been waiting and waiting..Go through with it!!

if you don't try, you may have regrets

NO, NO, NO, NO!!!! lol

You are good enough and you must go, I think most people have some sort of esteem issues at some point but you will probably regret it if you don't do it and could be missing out on something wonderful :)

Its better to just give up before getting started bro

We all have moments of self-doubt but to miss out on something because of it would probably leave you with regrets, and you are not inadequate in the least. Go for it and enjoy :)

Sweetie just take a deep breath and one one step at a time , let it take its own course , you never know it could just work out great stop putting your own feeling onto him , you don't know what he thinks or feels give him a chance, I had the same problem when Ob and I first got together I drove from NC to SC not knowing what to expect and I,m not half as Pretty as you are and i forced myself to take a chance and everything worked out wonderful , so calm down and take the chance you,ll regret it if you don't it will always be what if.

Put on your big girl thong and buck up lil camper. I am overly sure the only expectation is SHOWING UP. The rest of it is just natural. Just be you and things will be fine.

Ok Ok...now...look in the mirror and reflect.



Say this...

I'm Good Enough, I'm Smart Enough, and Doggone It, People Like Me.

Thanks everyone, you guys are the best, and by golly Jay you are right lol

WTF after all this time, I am so not letting you get cold feet, if u don't go well… I'll spank the shit outta ya, now get back in that game......... Um what was we talking about again?

Yes - it is better to dive in, so you won't have to deal with any self-doubt later on.

No 'I should've or could've' stuff will be present to make you nuts.

Good luck!

Don't put yourself down Pandy and have achieved so much in life which includes an adoring family. Go for it honey x

you'll deal with the "what coulda been's" for the rest of your life if you don't go....

Just go for it.... : )

And of course, he messages me *sighs*.

Oi I'm sorry.

Oops.. well you need to be surrounded with people who can take the hint!

Lets, hope he gets the message

I hope it goes wonderful for you two. I think either way it goes it will be a wonderful experience. I'm excited! -claps hands-

Remember there are outdoor activities..

Thanks Lainey, I am too :D



LOL @ Dan, oh I plan on taking it outdoors too ;)

Absoloutely! I wish you the best in this endeavour.:)

Good luck with this, hope it turns out as wonderful for you as my meeting with my man from here has for me! :)

Is it someone fat and pigfaced?



If so I would advice against it, just my two kronor

Nah, he's a hottie :)

Good luck Sweetie.

I wish you look and think this is fab, You deserve to be happy. :-)

You finally meeting Cancer? Gosh! :P

LMFAO! Oh lord lets not get that one started haha

Outside can be fun, just bring a blanket and find a good hidey-spot.



Cancer, eh?



Ohhhhh he's a hottie!



: P

That's right woman do go spouting about how we are getting that hotel, with razor blades and whip cream, that's out secret! Ummmmm…shit I did it again dint I? Lol

Ait you're going to be there too Jay? Now I have to bring a spare gimp suit!

*Hugs*



I am very happy for you hun. ;)

Oh kinky, bring it big boy well make it a orgy ( jumps around in a gay fashion clapping hands)

i hope you 2 are made for each other, good luck!

Like I said, bring a blanket and find a nice hidey-spot..it's the best time of year for "outdoor festivities".



Good luck!

"You finally meeting Cancer"



That really made me laugh!!



Good luck hun!

Whoo hoo! This is so cool - I hope that you two hit it off. If not, like you said - you can still be friends if there is no romantic spark - other stuff can be in synch!

awww I love seeing entries like this (: makes me all warm and fuzzy (:

*Smiles* HE makes me feel all warm and fuzzy ;)

Awwwws, so cute. :D

it is so nice to see warm and fuzzies (: lately most entries are all drama or about pain and despair...

Well, this almost was one of despair :( But thankfully he is who he is. :)

Aww...a warm fuzzy cupcake! :P

Awww remember to hold your farts in..lol