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?????22:43 Jan 01 2010
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Your thoughts? I am heterosexual. But I have been with 3 different women over a period of time. This does not mean I am bisexual. For me it was all about the sex and I will pick a man at least 98% of the time to have intercourse with over a woman.
The thing is I have a close friend, she is a "Lesbian" or rather Transgendered challenged, which just means that she is a woman that feels she is a man in every way just trapped in a womans body. She would have the operation but she just doesn't have the funds at this time.
Now, this woman loves me and wants to persue a relationship with me and before you ask, yes we know each other off of VR and have met in person. I have very deep feelings for her as well but am not sure if I can handle this type of relationship or if it is right for me. I know that I will get hell from my ex husband as he is a homophobe and while I don't care what he thinks we have a son together and that is where the problem lies. I have to think about my son and the downfall he would get if his mother is involved with another woman. We live in a small community, a very uptight one at that. I don't want to enter into a relationship with her and then have to end it because ultimately my son comes first. I don't want ANYONE to get hurt.
And I'm just confused.
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ImageMaker
22:55 Jan 01 2010
Nobody ever said these things were easy. Time will tell though, if you can't live without her/him, then you can't, and if you can, then you can. As for your son, I understand wanting to protect him from the persecution of ignorant people, but it's also an opportunity to teach him that different isn't necessary bad and that there are all kinds of people that make up the world. If you love this person how much of a disservice are you doing all three of you by denying yourself such a wonderful thing.
Hmmm, I suppose what I'm trying to say is do what you FEEL is right for you and yours, not society and homophobe ex-husbands.
RazrTheHollowAngel
23:31 Jan 01 2010
I have to agree with Image maker on this one ether way as long as your happy
Lolita
00:48 Jan 02 2010
Do what makes you happy hun, things will either work out or they wont... If they don't deal with it then, but don't deny your feelings.
All children want is to see their parents happy. Try not to think he will react negatively...
Also, unless you want to you don't have to identify with any name that classifies your sexuality. I personally don't like classifications, we are all individuals.
PandorasBx
01:35 Jan 02 2010
You all seem to follow the same lines. I am more afraid of the negative things Justin will be told by others or being picked on in school. Plus wether or not I will stay physically attracted to her. I'm not worried about mentally.
Thanks for your input everyone :)
xxxPassionxxx
02:15 Jan 02 2010
I agree with everyone above, I know that it is a hard thing to go through but think of the one that you care about, it must be hard for her as well. Love is the most powerful emotion there is and if you deny it then you might spend the rest of your life alone.
Legion
04:14 Jan 02 2010
Who you fuck is who you fuck and it is none of anyone elses buisness
PandorasBx
04:16 Jan 02 2010
The fact that this is a relationship and not just fucking is the issue. If it were just fucking there wouldn't be one.
ImageMaker
14:05 Jan 02 2010
Tru dat!
Theban
00:31 Jan 03 2010
You have already given the answer....you are attracted to 98% men as being the sex you are more interested in.
And also because of the mention about weather or not you will stay physically attracted to her : )
Would you be asking this question about a man?
Angelus
01:20 Apr 17 2010
.. you're confused. sheesh. at first one can thing you're something; then years later, after you have changed your mind, you change it again. It's all so-confusing!
Gordon
15:39 Apr 25 2010
You could move out with your son and your female friend to a nother area.
PandorasBx
03:54 Apr 26 2010
It didn't work out...