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WHOOOO HOOOOO!!!!02:34 May 26 2007
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WHOOO HOOO!!!!
Lawyer called...my ex is willing to pay me $7500 for the divorce. Which means I can pay off all my bills and still have about $3000 left over!!!
Also, found out that my divorce court date and my bf's court date for his divorce is on the same day. It will be wonderulf if we both get our divorces on the same day.
WOW13:50 May 22 2007
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Wow, ok.
Things seem to be going my way….I made Sire, my coven was approved and it is slowly prospering. I decided to take the Acolyte test a second time and passed and got the nod from the Prince himself to become part of his staff. I leave in3 days to head to Chicago and meet my honey. Its been 3 months too long away from him.
I hope things continue to go my way with the divorce….
My ex finally got back to my lawyer and offered $5000 to me. Yeah right. I got kicked out of the house for asking for $5000 to cover my bills. Since getting kicked out, I have borrowed from my parents, had vet bills that came up that I now owe my aunt for, medical bills and car repairs. I asked originally for $10,000. Because after all this with my lawyer, lord knows how much she is going to cost me. But since I want it over, I counter offered with $8500 and only authorized her to go as low as $7500. Otherwise I wait to see what the judge decides. My lawyer said basically I will get the shaft. Because we weren’t married for long enough. He will have to refinance the truck to get my name off of it, he will have to give me half the equity in the truck ( about $1000) But he will probably be forced to give me alimony. My lawyer asked for $500 a month for 36 months ($18,000 total) but she said the court will probably go for more like $200-$250 a month ($7200 to $9000). I wouldn’t mind the alimony but he would have to write a check each week for me and I don’t see that happening. I would prefer to have it done and over with, than trying to file for contempt of court charges from across the country. The alimony will help immensely if we can figure a way for me to get it automatically.
I am in the process of getting ready to make a cross country trip and to change my life. I vow to be a new person. Growing up I was always reminded that I was a tomboy and why do I bother attempting to look like a girl. So, jeans and t-shirts are all that I wear. I am overweight, with broad shoulders (from being a competitive swimmer for most my youth). I played football, softball, volleyball and swam all during high school. Wearing dresses was rare but when I did, I got a lot of attention because of my curvy body. But it was the wrong kind of attention. So I dressed down and I guess I never got out of the habit. Soooooo
I have a man that likes to see me in “girly” things. Jeans and t shirts are ok, but you can find the same comfort in girly pants and shirts too. So, I’m learning that its ok to be a girl. I am taking more pride in my appearance than ever before but feeling proud even with my being overweight. I think that this time when I attempt to loose the weight, I won’t be sabotaged…I will be supported and encouraged. Which will be a switch.
So, moving to the West Coast will change me in more ways than I know and it scares me to death. The “what ifs” are going through my head, stressing me out, making me loose sleep and worrying everyone. Me driving alone, from NY to Chicago and having Chronic Fatigue and MS and being low on sleep, not good.
I promised my bf I would try to put it out of my mind….so I write it here and try to forget.
17:35 May 21 2007
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WHOOO HOOOOO!!!!!
15:50 May 20 2007
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*dances and bounces around*
You passed the Acolyte test with a score of 85%.
Your application has been sent to Cancer for final approval.
WOW...lots going on23:27 May 05 2007
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I noticed that I hadn't updated my journal for awhile but please forgive me....i have been a tad busy.
Lets see....
I went to the doc for a cold and she found a lump in my thyroid and a lump in my breast and mentioned cancer. Oh Joy!!! just what i need.
So, I went through the Mammograms, the Ultrasound and a biopsy. Guess what...all negative. Thankfully. It would have been the cherry on top to a wonderful new year.....can you hear the sarcasm???
My dog Harley has somehow injuried herself. For several days she would wake up out of a deep sleep yipping, favoring her front left leg. It would usually end pretty quickly and she would go back to sleep. But at 3 o'clock on morning (why is it they get sick that early) she just couldn't stop and I couldn't do anything to make her comfortable. We took a trip to the Vet Er and he said nothing was broken, probably just muscle or ligmanet strain. He gave me a pain pill and sent me on my way. But having a dog move or try to sleep and wake up yipping is enough to drive anyone to drink. After 24 hours and less than an hour of sleep, I called the doctor up, he gave me another pain pill that was suppose to be a sedative too. Another 12 hours and only 2 more hours of sleep, I called up again, quite angry because she is my baby and her pain hurt me...Empathy sucks sometimes. I went up one side of the doctor and down the other, Ordering some muscle relaxants so this dog could sleep....and hence so could I. Finally we got the right combination and we both were able to sleep. She is walking now with no limp, but i am being cautious and not letting her play with the other dogs. But i'm happy she doesn't seem to be in pain and she is back to her old self.
Money as always is a issue....i just hope i can pay off my bills soon.
My ex husband to be is dragging his feet on the divorce. Hasn't answered the summons and whatnot....oh well...that is what lawyers are for...*cringes* More money.
Some good things happening....
I made Sire again and finally got the right graphics for my coven. I am working to set that up to start inducting members.
At the end of this month, I am heading west to live with my brother and his wife....I will get to see my parents and get to spend a week with my boyfriend as we drive cross country. I am so looking forward to starting over.
Well that's the update. will update again soon
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