Everyone has their reasons for not trusting people. While I find myself to be a friendly person and give most people a chance I do not trust easily. I like many people, was not born this. My experiences and life events have brought me to build my walls as thick and high as they are. This is not to say that I will never trust anyone. It just means I like to protect myself until I know that I no longer need to protect myself from you. Once someone gets past those walls I will stand by them in everything they do, even if I don't agree with them (short of killing someone lol). Trust may not be earned easily, but once earned it is sweet, but be sure not to betray it for once it is gone it does not come back.
I recently spoke with someone very close to me, I came to realize that this person had been living with many regrets and malicious thoughts in their head. I realize that people seem to focus on all the things that they could have done differently. While we need to learn from our past we can't spend time dwelling on it because it won't change anything. All we have is what is right now, all we can change is whats going on right now. Rather than focus on all the things we could have done differently look at what we did right and keep doing those things and change what we did wrong so we work towards a better future. If anyone ever feels the need to talk absolutely send me a message, often times it's easier to talk to a stranger than someone you know well. I may take a while to get back because I am not on as much as I would like to be but rest assured I will get back to you! Stay strong everyone.
When people who abandoned you years ago for no reason suddenly decide to come back when you start to experience some success. Yeah, these are the type of people to watch out for. These people are toxic and self-centered and do not have your best interest in mind. Anyone can stick around when things are good, truly loyal friends stay by you when you are at your worst.
I prefer my isolation from peopld just like everyone else. However being isolated and being excluded are totall different. Being excluded is a terrible feeling and makes one feel like they dont belong. I always try to never exclude people cause there is nothing worse than being the odd one out :/
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vXVampre
05:23 Aug 24 2017
It is a good quality to be careful with your trust.