Thursday morning hitting the road on a business trip. I am due back on the 26th. No airports to deal with this time. My workmate who is driving us is taking his BMW. Four Cree guys in a Bmer. Us Natives moving up in the word with BMW Indian Cars. He even has a sticker on the bumper: Indian Car. Anyways, when I can I will answer messages, return rates.
I got into an argument with my girlfriend last night. I think we broke up. Well I know for me I am done with her. Not sure if she fully realizes it yet. Last night she sent me some nasty text. Really mean. Dawned on me damn she has my passwords to a lot of my shit. So I spent like 2 hours last night changing passwords. I told my roommate next GF if I dare suggest I am going to give her a password to anything just kill me now. So my advice is don't do like I did and give those passwords out to girlfriends. Passwords are hard enough as it is to come up with them. Two hours changing them all. I got learn there is trust and then there is TRUST. At this venture in my life no one will ever get my passwords again... maybe to the wife when I marry on our 10th anniversary...
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Make it the 20th anniversary if she is still around by then, then she is a keeper ;)
Not a bad idea! I might just take that advise. On the 20th I give the wife a list of all my passwords until then... NO way in hell.
Oh no give her the list when you know your becoming forgetful in old age. Only give her passwords to key things in life that is essential after 20 years lol
Of course if you get married when your old well 20 years maybe pushing it lol
When I am old I will just write them on a piece of paper and stick the paper in my walker leg and keep that rubber thingy on it.
i dont blame you
i dont even give my passwords to anyone i could careless who it is
I AGREE, NEVER GIVE YOUR PASSWORDS TO ANYONE NOT EVEN YOUR PARTNER AS IF THINGS TURN SOUR, THEN THEY COULD RUIN YOUR ONLINE LIFE AND FINANCIAL LIFE TOO, BY FOR EXAMPLE EMPTYING YOUR ENTIRE BANK ACCOUNT FOR EXAMPLE OR DAMAGING YOUR VR OR OTHER PROFILES AT FB ETC. PEOPLE WHEN THEY TURN NASTY CAN TURN VERY NASTY SO YOU DONT WANT TO PUT YOURSELF IN HARMS WAY WHEN YOU DONT HAVE TO.
WTF is up with the people who come here to this site who make it very clear they want cyber sex, that they are horny, that they want a Master, a sexual mate. I mean when someone puts on there kismet *I am horny!* it just blows me away. Then the avatar pictures some of these girls have ones that make it pretty clear that they desire something here. And then us guys who have to lurk more then not just so we won't be hassled by these types of girls... W T F... there are porno sites. Chat rooms you can go on the net for that... since when is a Vampire/Gothic site the place to come for sex? What am I missing here? Vampire Rave is The Ultimate Vampire Resource and Directory. Where does someone join a site like this and jump into it like it is some sexual cyber social club?
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Welcome to the world of the internet, where people who can't get it in real life, try to get in online, no matter where they are.
Well if you take a look at the other vampire themed sites you would see that's their main purpose, online social dating and hooking up. It really doesn't bother me. If they are not hurting anyone, I say live and let live.
I didn't expect to join a Vampire Resource and Directory site and seeing some of the stuff I do here and having to block because with some if you nicely tell them you do not wish to be hit on or talk about sex keep doing it anyway. I have been here almost 2 years. Seems lately more and more new members who join right off the bat make it clear there intentions. A few have message me and have been very direct about it. And as I block the one's who keep it up seems in no time there are new ones to take there place. So I just stopped and now just do not reply back. I do like this site a lot. I have made some deep friendships.
Whether it's people coming here just to screw with others or the horny and brainless coming here because it's a vampire themed site because of the romantic/sexual element of the vampire myth it's always been like this though I have to admit the site used to be more fun than it is now.
Black I have seen a change here in the almost 2 years I have been here. More of the "I want to be turned" groupies and they 'Looking for a mate' ones too. And as I posted the ones who are looking to get cyber laid.
Dakotah......... You are NOT going to like me for this comment, but you know I'm always gonna give it to you straight up. (My opinion, that is. LOL)
Anyway..... Please..... Do not make me switch inboxes with you. I'm sure us women get it A LOT worse than you guys.
The other thing that ticks me off about this entry? You're calling out people for coming to Cancer's "Vampire Rave is The Ultimate Vampire Resource and Directory" for cyber sex and don't even mention the people that come here and make fun of HLV's on their own social networking site. VR is a social networking site "for real vampires". It says it right in the browser bar, "Vampire Rave is for Vampires." It says it right on the welcome page: "Vampire Rave is for real vampires across the globe" or w/e it says. I've written entry after entry about the people who make fun of people like me. They make fun because they are ignorant and uneducated as to what an HLV actually IS. It's not a fucking fanged creature of the night and JUST MAYBE if these asshole RPG people would stop coming here and INSISTING that they are REAL VAMPIRES it would STOP making people like me look like a fucking retard. You feel me? I think it's RIDICULOUS that we come to one of the ONLY Vampyre Social sites and STILL have to put up with the people that poke fun. If they don't like HLV's than they really should NOT be here.
Oh yeah... I put a post up in Purgatory because they were all poking fun at this member that had posted a question. Looks like the activity plummeted shortly thereafter. I wasn't there at the time. I took a screen shot of the welcome page where it says that shit. Then I was like, this is Cancer's VAMPIRE Social Networking site FOR Vampires. If you don't LIKE Vampires, than why don't you just get the FUCK off our site? I posted that hoping it would HELP with activity. You know, once the vamps know there's someone there that has their back, they'll come out. Afterwards, two more people started posting. So the stupid ass CM went to Cancer to try and get me blinded. He told her NO. LMFAO You'd think she'd have thanked me for livening up the forum again. Before I came it was completely DEAD. After, we had four people actively posting. After she went off on me about that shit? Two people stopped posting again. So she fucked her OWN self.
Think I will apply to go on the Bachelor. I would not mind having 25...26 women cat fighting over me as I tell each one to open up to me and that I have feelings for them as we go to nice places all over... and at those cocktail parties I kiss each one as they all fight to be able to spend 25 seconds with me before the rose thing...
Really?! Why do women do those shows? In the history of that reality show only 1 couple actually got together... I googled it...I watched the final episode because I was bored of the famer guy.... Yeah I could do that.
XXXXX will you accept this rose?
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haha that would be great! Yes, I will accept that rose :) lol
Figure if they accept me I will get all my lady friends here on VR to apply to the show I am on and I will of course give you all roses and we can travel all over for free.
You better get accepted haha
People go on those type of shows for the exposure. Who knows who will see them and where it may lead?
Yeah I think your right... they get there 15 min of fame. This last show I did watch some of it and there was this one girl who was really off the wall. At the final show of the famer guy they asked the crazy girl if she would be on another part of the show next season so I guess for some it does lead to other stuff.
HA HA....Im in!!!
Some good news... The mom and her pups went to a forever home this past week. A family stepped up and adopted mom and all four of her pups. This is a picture of there last meal at my place before they left. I am going to miss these little guys.
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If only people would treat animals with kindness in the first place. It annoys me but glad they have had a happy ending and a new start in life.
That is some good news. :) I am so glad that you helped these little ones find a good home.
it was funny when they left they just followed mom right outside into the car not looking back at all at me. LOL.. It was like they were saying 'oh another adventure, wait for us mom!'
They are so cute and adorable. I'm glad they found a forever home, even more so with their mommy too. :) I'm glad things are looking up for you Dakotah.
Don't forget clocks move forward this weekend.
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Thanks for the reminder, I totally forgot!
LOL Can't wait to get back to Arizona. We don't participate in such nonsense.
I refuse to except this and shall protest by staying in bed an extra hour come the mornings sunrise ;)
They WOULD ruin a perfectly good blanket to make their nonexistent logic seem logical. xP Either way, I am still sleeping my normal time anyway.
Early this morning about 4 am HoneyComb passed away. She had gotten a infection from one of the cuts on her back leg. She fought as hard as she could but her body just could not fight anymore.
HoneyComb was found dumped off by someone in the city. She had been beaten recently by someone and her legs were marked up real bad. The thing is if the person who dumped her off had dropped her off at the local animal control pound we might of been able to stop the infection sooner. All I can say is her last few weeks she was loved. In a warm and loving home around many who loved her. RIP HoneyComb we will meet again one day my sweet four legged sister.
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I'm very sorry
The Vet is asking the city to pull the cameras in the area she was found in due to she could hardly walk from the beaten she had been given we know what cameras to ask them to pull. The vet said if they can find the person they can at least make there wallet hurt some but it is only a small fine for dumping animals out down town and it would be extremely hard to prove the person beat her.
She passed away surrounded by people who loved her and I think she knew the last few weeks of her life that not all two-legged are evil people.
Thank you Hanna and also thank you for the dog prayer you messaged me.
Poor baby. :( So sorry to hear she passed.
I'm so sorry :( I'm glad her last few moments were full of warmth and kindness :(
I am sorry to read this. At least she knew compassion and love in her last days, because of you.
so sorry to hear of Honeycombs passing. Thank you for making her feel loved and comfortable during her last days. Hugs!
Condolences for your loss.
It's really a team that she had. Someone called 911 about a dog down town, saying the dog looked beaten up. 911 calls Animal control who then goes out and locates dogs like Honeycomb. She is taken to one of 2 vets in the area who offers medical care on strays. They are giving a full work up, patched up, given shots and if in good enough medical condition there is a list they go down on Foster Families. Due to when she was found the roads were very bad animal control brought her to my house. Me and my roommate are foster parents to dogs, horses and we have had a donkey, a cow, and goat before and 2 cats. They also drop off food for them that is donated and in her case special foods... medicines all paid for by donations, fundraisers ect.... Where I live 4 of my neighbors also are foster parents to four leg brothers and sisters so we all chip in helping. So Honeycomb had a whole team of people helping her... if anyone has the room and the time look into animal foster care programs in your area... yes it can be hard to let them go when Forever homes are found but it is also a happy time to know a once homeless four legged brother and sister is given another chance. The reward is a lot of licks, waggy tails and good feelings. And as I said there medical is normally all paid for so there is little out of the pocket expenses... but I do buy toys... collars... leashes... bridles... blankets... Tomorrow Honeycomb will be placed to rest behind the barn at the entrance to the woods is this HUGE tree and it just seems like it is a spot she would like. Also my blanket she took a liking too will be buried with her that she laying on in the picture... she really liked it.
Aww I'm so sorry to hear this. :'( the poor baby fought so hard, I really thought she was going to pull through.
But I'm glad she was loved in her final days.
Peace for you now, dear little HoneyComb.
She's such a beautiful dog, it always saddens me when I hear about those horrible people who hurt animals like this. Sometimes I think those people are the one's who don't have souls to treat a innocent animal who loves you unconditionally like that? Pure evil in my eyes.
She at least had you and others who loved her greatly up to the end, that much is a bit of peace. May her soul be at peace and happiness now.
I just have to share this...
In The Blood Countess we do not recruit from other covens. A person here starts message me how they want into the coven. I inform them the process (if they are already in a coven) Contact your CM, inform them, AFTER you do this then contact our CM. Well this was never done and after the person began message me almost 3-4x a day how my CM never contacted them and yet again explaining the process... (which by this time it is pretty clear this person is not the standard we want in The Blood Countess) She messages my CM and informs her she contacted Cancer because... My CM would not let her into our coven and she asked Cancer to kick my CM off VR due to this... well it was riddled and cuss words but I will leave those off....
Yeah NOT a way to get into a coven.... threaten to ask Cancer to kick off the Cm of said coven you want in because the CM's and ACM's will not induct you and calling the CM ever cuss word you can think of.
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she's coo coo for cocoa puffs lmao
I will say after I read the messages she sent to my CM claiming she contacted Cancer about it... I laughed so hard for about 10 min. This is soooo funny.
I just have to share the message... yes the person name is xxx'ed out.
On 03:48:07 Mar 03 2015 (-0 GMT) XXXXXXXXX wrote:
LISTEN HERE YOU STUPOD BITCH YOU WILL FUCKING TALK TO MY FUCKING COVEN MASTER OR I WILL HAVE CANCER KICK YOU OFF ON VR AND I WON'T HESITATE TO DO IT
Anyone who has been here long enough to understand the Society system knows the only thing mandatory about it is that a member below Sire has to be involved in it, not a member being a part of someone's society that they choose. Cancer does not involve himself in these actions, and usually the only time admins involve themselves in situations with the members is when the rules are broken. Hell, maybe a prison coven might grab this one.
I will readily admit I think my coven is one of the best... but I did not know people would go to such lengths to get into it... One thing for sure... I have never laughed so hard in awhile.
I wonder if it gave Cancer a good laugh too.
HAHAHA oh my word, Dakota.
Thats so funny.... This person is a real piece of work.Not only spoiled and throwing tantrums, but stupOd to boot! lmao.
That will probably get her kicked off vr instead. Nobody has time for that.
I miss Cancer's gems messages, he was posting them in his journal when he was getting these kind of messages or those asking to be admin or such, I even recall one who ask if he dies will the site stop, and the answer Cancer gave was priceless, lol I highly suggest you go have a look at his journal its a good laugh I assure you :)
Serenity I was just telling Moonsong tonight that when I first came here I went and read his journal and the message he use to get and his replies--- priceless.
Her exact words to me were
"LISTEN HERE YOU STUPOD BITCH YOU WILL FUCKING TALK TO MY FUCKING COVEN MASTER OR I WILL HAVE CANCER KICK YOU OFF ON VR AND I WON'T HESITATE TO DO IT"
She needs to chill out so she can spell shit right for ONE.. and 2 this made me seriously laugh... but in ending she is more than welcome to the Coven... as a prisoner
She is deffo coo-coo but she did make me laugh
And what is even more nuts is... before all this started to go down like this... my CM DID ask her CM about a possible trade and her CM would NOT trade her. So she goes off on VK... when VK had inquired. Talk about going off on the wrong person.
Seems someone needs to read the V.R. manual dealing with CMs and covens.
Well, that spells crazy with a big C. Best way to NOT get into a coven. Still it is kind of funny that she threw a tantrum about such a thing. Even when she was already in a Coven to begin with. - Shakes head - Some people.
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sweetraven
18:49 Mar 18 2015
safe paths
ladydarkrose
15:34 Apr 10 2015
hope you had a safe trip